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Should I switch roomates or stay?
Can't decided if it's better to stay or leave
Replies: 4Last Post Dec. 27, 2007 10:02pm by gotyooadicted
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So I really want to move out of my dorm into another one because of some issues with my two roommates.

Us 3 decided to live together this year and even though I am rarely around during the week due to a heavy coarse load, I still have issues with them. I don't trust them and try to keep all my things in my room locked up so they can't get to anything. However, part of me feels stupid for doing it cause I'm paying just as much money as they are to use the kitchen and living room.

I try to give them the least amount of reasons to accuse me of anything and since I am rarely there and never have any of my things out, I feel like I am more in the right than they are and what they did to me.

Should I move dorms so I can be in an environment where I am more relaxed and feel less stressed about my roommate problems or should I avoid the drama I'll deal with if I leave and stay at my current dorm the rest of the school year? My roommates crave drama and try to find anything to fight about and I have no time for it at all. But I feel like it could be worse if I move out. What should I do?

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carnage44


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Life is too short.

Do what will make you the happiest.

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We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year.


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mrsgabbysmall


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what'd they do to you?


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xmunchiex


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if you think you cant trust them there is a good chance that any person you  room with you will feel the same way. i know i would if i wasnt around alot. id just stay

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gotyooadicted


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i think you should move out if it's bothering you even a little bit. your roomates don't have to like you and vice versa, but you should be able to get along with them

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