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Like almost every topic about "I'm waiting until marriage, what about you?", "are you a virgin?", "should I have sex?" ends up with the virgins bashing the non-virgins and saying why it's soooo horrible to have sex and why it's soooo much better to wait until marriage.Personally, I find this EXTREMELY insulting. Do you ever see non-virgins saying why it's so horrible to wait until marriage (well, sometimes, but normally it's to retalliate from a bashing from the virgins) or why it's soooo much better to go out and have sex right now? It's such a double standard, and it pisses me off. If non-virgins were to bash virgins, dude, there'd be hell to pay. But when virgins bash non-virgins, it's all good. I think that if you virgins need to feel better about yourself by bashing others, then you need to seriously re-evaluate your lifestyle. I want to say more, but it'd all come out as gibberish, so maybe I'll try later. Anyway, please post your thoughts.
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Like almost every topic about "I'm waiting until marriage, what about you?", "are you a virgin?", "should I have sex?" ends up with the virgins bashing the non-virgins and saying why it's soooo horrible to have sex and why it's soooo much better to wait until marriage.Personally, I find this EXTREMELY insulting. Do you ever see non-virgins saying why it's so horrible to wait until marriage (well, sometimes, but normally it's to retalliate from a bashing from the virgins) or why it's soooo much better to go out and have sex right now? It's such a double standard, and it pisses me off. If non-virgins were to bash virgins, dude, there'd be hell to pay. But when virgins bash non-virgins, it's all good. I think that if you virgins need to feel better about yourself by bashing others, then you need to seriously re-evaluate your lifestyle. I want to say more, but it'd all come out as gibberish, so maybe I'll try later. Anyway, please post your thoughts.
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There are quite a few things like that, but I'm not so sure it's to the point of bashing. I mean, I'm a virgin and don't really care...it should be a personal choice each person makes for whatever cause: personal morals, religion, not finding someone yet or whatever. Personally, I'm not ready for the conciquences of what could happen and don't like the thought of abortion for me...so I'm choosing not to. I think it's completly a personal choice and people should treat it as such.
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There are quite a few things like that, but I'm not so sure it's to the point of bashing. I mean, I'm a virgin and don't really care...it should be a personal choice each person makes for whatever cause: personal morals, religion, not finding someone yet or whatever. Personally, I'm not ready for the conciquences of what could happen and don't like the thought of abortion for me...so I'm choosing not to. I think it's completly a personal choice and people should treat it as such.
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i feel you jenny... but virgins dont bother me unless they saving themselves cause of god or something like that.... just sucks for them if they are virgins and they break their hymen doing someshit.... i know if my lady told me she was a virgin and we waited for hunny moon and her hymen was broken id leave her
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i feel you jenny... but virgins dont bother me unless they saving themselves cause of god or something like that.... just sucks for them if they are virgins and they break their hymen doing someshit.... i know if my lady told me she was a virgin and we waited for hunny moon and her hymen was broken id leave her
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I agree with ya 100%
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I agree with ya 100%
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Quote: from rockinralfman at 1:50 pm on July 4, 2004
 just sucks for them if they are virgins and they break their hymen doing someshit.... i know if my lady told me she was a virgin and we waited for hunny moon and her hymen was broken id leave her 
What... the... fuck...?
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Quote: from rockinralfman at 1:50 pm on July 4, 2004
just sucks for them if they are virgins and they break their hymen doing someshit.... i know if my lady told me she was a virgin and we waited for hunny moon and her hymen was broken id leave her
What... the... fuck...?
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i mean it doesnt bother me if they were a virgin or not id just take it as a lie and i hate when ppl lie to me even when its over something so fucken stupid that you should have told me....
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i mean it doesnt bother me if they were a virgin or not id just take it as a lie and i hate when ppl lie to me even when its over something so fucken stupid that you should have told me....
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Quote: from rockinralfman at 2:53 pm on July 4, 2004
i mean it doesnt bother me if they were a virgin or not id just take it as a lie and i hate when ppl lie to me even when its over something so fucken stupid that you should have told me....
You really shouldn't get married if you have no trust in somebody. When its so possible for her to have broken it in another way you aren't going to trust the girl you just MARRIED when she tells you she is a virgin?
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