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trying to stop her being a friend....but impossible to ignore her! |
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 Replies: 10 — Last Post June 28, 2008 12:23pm by RainBowBow
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So yea, I asked out this female friend of mine and i think i finally bbroke the "just friends" barrier. but lately her lifes been sucking so bad and shes really really sick and shes been more like "OMG my life sucksssss" and complaining to me while im trying to flirt with her. So i start ignoring her and just waiting for her crappy times to be over...but she keeps im'ing me and writing on my facebook wall, complaining about her life issues (NOT guy problems though) and i cant ignore her. but im trying real hard to distance myself from her so we become less and less as friends.
how to do it??
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Anonymous
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so u're trying to date her by being a douchebag to her? fuck man, that's a new one
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mcrfool
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I suggest you just stick with her since it doesn't sound like you constantly have to give her advice. Just listen and be there.
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I'm sick of following my dreams.
I'm just going to ask them where they're going and hook up with them later.
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8:28 pm on June 26, 2008 | Joined: July 2005 | Days Active: 514
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RocketMan
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You're a terrible friend.
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Hey you
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8:29 pm on June 26, 2008 | Joined: Oct. 2007 | Days Active: 312
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branflakes
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distance yourself at first and if she rants to you, tell her you're not her counselor
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Themakingofagod
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Honestly, I'm kind of in the same position, but you have to be reasonable about things. How on earth do you expect her to want to date you if you won't even be a good friend to her? Even though you don't want a friendship with her, a friendship is literally the foundation of everything else that comes along with it. From the way you're saying it, you're making it sound like you don't care if she's happy or not, as long as you get to date her. If thats the case, its no wonder why you ended up in the friend zone, because I wouldn't consider dating someone that seemed to have their intentions WAY off track anyways.
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Multitasking is pretty hard, but when you've been
satisfying men with sandwich and cake-making abilities
all your life, you get used to it. - GIRAFFES
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so u're trying to date her by being a douchebag to her? fuck man, that's a new one
