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help im scared.
Replies: 6Last Post July 2 10:08am by godsgift2harlem
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( sarahbear349 )

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ok, well, im new here. so, hi, first of all. but getting to it. im scared. ive been having sex this year right, and i was on the pill for a few years then i went off it and was still having sex. latley i stopped having sex cos i started noticing all these changes. eg, not having my period, sore breasts and body, peeing more, discharge down there etc. my boyfriend and i did want a family but not till later. i told him latley and he has seemed real excited till tonight, he was talking all bout me having an abortion. we had talked many times bout how we both HATED the idea of abortion. i dropped the phone when he was saying that. i thought he'd be more supportive, i was feeling shit enough. help! im so scared.

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swtpie


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If you turn out to be pregnant, then you need to decide. He probably just realized the financial part of it, and got scared. I'm sure everyone gets scared every once and a while. Find out for sure if you are, and just tell him that you want it. He'll come around. You just need to tell him how you feel.

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dragonking


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If you both are against it you should keep the baby or give it up for adoption, to give a child to people who can't have one.

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victim raven


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do a pregnancy test before you freak out
then remember, its your body...if you really want this kid, have it


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( sarahbear349 )

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yeah, well ill have to get some money together and do a test. im scared i wont have support though :( i dont get it though. i told him a few days ago and he was soo supportive till tonight. tonight i broke down thinking "shit, theres a little one in me" and he was just such a dickhead to me :(

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swtpie


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Quote: from sarahbear349 at 7:59 am on July 2, 2008

yeah, well ill have to get some money together and do a test. im scared i wont have support though :( i dont get it though. i told him a few days ago and he was soo supportive till tonight. tonight i broke down thinking "shit, theres a little one in me" and he was just such a dickhead to me :(

I'm sorry to hear. But you need to understand that he feels responsible that he needs to provide, and he is just scared he'll mess up. He'll come around.


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My boyfriend did the same thing to me when I first found out I was pregnant..he acted excited and then we got to the abortion talk...I felt really alone and for months he would come see me once a month...imagine how horrible that is when you have all these thoughts and you have to go through it alone...He's scared cuz he's still young and he's gonna want to have fun and maybe even ask you if ya could see other people and be together too...say no..keep your boundaries tight if hes gonna leave hes gonna leave...My boyfriend did come back and we raised the baby together but I did get myself prepared for if he didn't come back..I was ready to move on and he came back just before i fully forgot about him..you have to stay strong for yourself...cuz no one is gonna do it for you...good luck and I'm sorry some guys are jerks....they wanna stick it in and not take what comes out you know...

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