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Having sex when both of us are in the room
My room mate and her boyfrind don't mnd, my date is shy and inhibited
Replies: 18 — Last Post Sep. 6 3:21pm by Johnboysfun
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( Lillylove )


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We are stuck with our dorm rooms and can't afford to go elsewhere.
My room mate and her boy friend don't mind someone else in the room but the guy I'm dating at the moment is very shy and inhibited. He insists on the covers being over us and won't let me get on top and he won't get very active, only wants to do it quietly. Will he get over it and is there anything I can say or do to help him? I'm getting frustrated because he won't be active.
    What do others do in this situation?
2:16 pm on June 29, 2008 | Joined Dec. 2006 | 221 Days Active
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PinkLotus


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Go somewhere, save for a hotel room?
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lmc11591


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go somewhere private. how about that?

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greeneyedone


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It is sex. It is a personal thing. You cant expect him to change because you cant go anywhere else. Just wait til she leaves.

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iBritt


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Wait, what?  You want to have sex with your roommate in the room?

She has sex when other people are in the room? What?  I'm so confused

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Metacarpi


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Do it in the bathroom. Or ask your room mate to leave for like half an hour.

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assman27

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just go somewere else.

xx

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effyouseakay


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Handcuff him and take charge!

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Ashley91

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go to a park and do it there at night i do omg its so fun.
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chicklover

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go to his room and kick his roommate out??
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brunettechic


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Try and get to the room while your roommate is in class or out with her boyfriend.

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inside out oreo

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idk, it's just his nature.

like in my nature, i could fuck the hell out of a girl in someones living room with 20 people watching us and not give a shit... it's just how we are and your boyfriend is shy.

so, no, he probably won't change.

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( Lillylove )


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It isn't all that simple or else we would have solved the problem by now. Her boyfriend lives at home, the guy I'm dating rooms with  three other guys. We aren't into quickies so we are talking about an afternoon, an evening or a night, especially on week ends. My guy will just have to adjust and get used to it but I don't know what to do to hurry it up.  It bothered me at first but I realized we paid no attention to one another so it didn't matter and I just pretended they weren't there..
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shea399


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Meet over summer vacation instead of being pressured to do it in the dorm room

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chinaman


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well...theres two situations to this problem lillyLove,

1. he's really gay but doesnt want anyone to know...

2. he's just a pussycat... i mean, i don't like having sex with people around either, but eh...watever floats your boat...

If you want more sex with your bf, just do it at his place or somewhere else... make it exciting... Go dick around in a dressing room stall or even under a tree. Sex is great! Enjoy it before he has to take viagara or you need ky ...haha

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