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how do you break up with a guy you like?
Replies: 11Last Post June 28 10:52pm by cutiepuhtootie
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( byebyebeautyful )


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ok so im posting about this stupid guy one more time. hopefully last.

every time i post up something about him, i tend to get the same answer, dump him, hes not worth it, blah blah blah.

i know i should, but its really hard for me to talk to people about dumping them.. plus this guy does wierd unneccesarry shit like call me by his ex's name or other not nice stuff but hes generally a sweet guy and im kinda used to having him around..

please tell me, how should i leave him?? how can i bring it up? how can i get through it without feeling like i just gave up something for no good reason?

by the way i still like him and feel like im doing someting not too nice.

he wants to take me to sea world for my birthday which is in 3 days and sea world is about 200 miles from us and wed stay the weekend there. what should i do?????????

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If you like him, don't break up with him.

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iinsurgent


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Go to Seaworld. Seaworld rules.

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penguinsrule


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go to seaworld :)

then dump him

lol i'm mean XD

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dark eric


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Quote: from iinsurgent at 10:42 pm on June 28, 2008

Go to Seaworld. Seaworld rules.
Agreed

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quit being weak, that just gives him more power.
thats what men want. be the bigger person and just dump his ass, theres no easier way of putting it dearie.

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Just Waiting Here


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Are you sure you still like him?  Or are you telling yourself that you still like him to give yourself an excuse for not breaking up?

I know it feels like you're being mean, I'm similar in those kinds of things.  But you know what's worse?  Staying with someone when you don't want to be with them.  If anything, that's much more 'not nice', don't you agree?

Bring it up when you get the chance... tell him that you don't think this relationship is right for you and that it's time you both go you own ways.  Bring it up however you feel most comfortable, and really... just be honest.

Simply put... the longer you push it off, the worse it's going to get for you.


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dark eric


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Or you culd just go to seaworld and not hurt his feelings

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blufindr


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tell him you still like him but find his behaviour unacceptable.
call for a break.

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helovesme


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Quote: from iinsurgent at 10:42 pm on June 28, 2008

Go to Seaworld. Seaworld rules.

yeah then tlk 2 him... just say 1 of ur friends said that u should consider breaking up with him... then be like u havent exactly been the best bf....

**if he truly loved u he would want u to be happy, he would want to make u happy, and he would want to be the best bf u have ever had and then he would still not think he is good enuff**


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Sheana


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stay with him until your birthday.
if you still can't stand him, then you need to break up with him
kind of bring it up..be like..would you ever break up with me? or what would you do if i broke up with you? or something. you should wait till you get home before you start this conversation.
tell him you need to have a SERIOUS talk.
tell him you don't like him to call you by his ex's names.

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cutiepuhtootie


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umm girl you need to dump him then go to sea world and meat a new boy =] and get over him


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