You should sit down and talk to him about it. But be careful. I did that once, and he was like, "um yeah, we should just be friends."
Find out why he can't seem to connect with you.
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"call me up before your dead, we can make some plans instead
send me an IM, I'll be your friend
so I'll curate some situations, make my job a big vacation
and I'll say fck Bush and fck this war"