LiveWire Network Peer Answers Peer Support Teen Forums Tech Forums College Forums 430 users online 211590 members 275 active today Advertise Here Sign In
TeenCollegeTechPhotos | Quizzes | LiveSecret | Memberlist | Dictionary | News | FAQ
Member Spotlight
Descartes
Favs: Most anything I suppose.
Mood: Pleased
You have 1 new message.
Emergency Help
Until you sign up you can't do much. Yes, it's free.

Sign Up Now
Membername:
Password:
Already have an account?
► Invite Friends
► Active Members
► Groups
► Contests
Moderators
3 online / 37 MPM
Fresh Topics
  LiveWire / College Forums / College Sexuality / Viewing Topic

Scars
Replies: 6 — Last Post July 7, 2008 6:13am by RainBowBow
Welcome to LiveWire!
We're Stronger Together. 		Join the Community
Single page for this topic Email Print Favorite
( Anonymous )

Reply
I've been seeing this guy and we're officially going out. I really like him, he's a good guy. We're already talking about sex and i think we're ready for that. However, I used to cut my legs and i have really ugly scars. Do you think I should tell him once and for all about them? Or should i wait till then and there? I've had sex before but it was no strings attached. I think this is serious so I really want to know if it'd be appropriate for me to let him know once and for all. Thanks!
10:16 pm on July 1, 2008
itoldyou


Quality Control Engineer 		Reply
well if you really like them then you should be somewhat comfortable about sharing your past.  if he really likes you, he won't judge.

-------
"push your head towards the air.."
- Editors
10:17 pm on July 1, 2008 | Joined: June 2008 | Days Active: 40
Join to learn more about itoldyou British Columbia, Canada | Straight Female | Posts: 485 | Points: 921
LostInTheClouds


Professional
Patron 		Reply
I think you should let him know about the scars that you have before hand. You wouldn't want him to stumble upon them blindly and become even uncomfortable about seeing them just out of the blue like that.  

If you really like him, then you should be able to trust him with any personal secrets that you might have. And if he really likes you like he seems to, then they shouldn't even bother him at all; besides being bothered with concern about you of course. I think that he can just look past it. He can see the pain that you have been through, and can just realize that he is making you happy by being with you and by, more importantly, accepting you for the person that you are. :)

Post edited at 9:00 pm on July 26, 2008 by LostInTheClouds

10:20 pm on July 1, 2008 | Joined: June 2008 | Days Active: 66
Join to learn more about LostInTheClouds Pennsylvania, United States | Bisexual Female | Posts: 2,952 | Points: 2,933
One Two Step


Soothsayer 		Reply
If you want to, or you could keep the lights off.

-------
are your parents assholes? cause you are the shit
10:21 pm on July 1, 2008 | Joined: Jan. 2006 | Days Active: 414
Join to learn more about One Two Step Czech Republic | Asexual | Posts: 6,831 | Points: 11,704
twilightdancer


Connoisseur 		Reply
That doesn't really seem like something to talk about in the heat of the moment XD

...Tell him beforehand.

-------
~Blaise

6:49 pm on July 4, 2008 | Joined: Dec. 2005 | Days Active: 441
Join to learn more about twilightdancer Michigan, United States | Straight Female | Posts: 1,234 | Points: 6,559
ultima171


Advisor 		Reply
scars are no big deal, just tell him...but how did you get them?
8:49 pm on July 4, 2008 | Joined: June 2008 | Days Active: 24
Join to learn more about ultima171 Ohio, United States | Male | Posts: 195 | Points: 451
RainBowBow


Wealthy Hobo 		Reply
Honsety is important. Go tell him
6:13 am on July 7, 2008 | Joined: June 2008 | Days Active: 204
Join to learn more about RainBowBow California, United States | Label Free Male | Posts: 3,910 | Points: 5,778
Single page for this topic Email Print Favorite

Quick Reply

You are signed in as our guest.

Looking for something else?
 

  LiveWire / College Forums / College Sexuality / Viewing Topic

© 2000-2009 LiveWire Peer Support Network
Custom Web Hosting | Teen Advice | Peer Support