My boyfriend and I have been having sex for  over a year.  he's always on top. But he wants me on top so the odd time I try it hurts like a bitch. I can't even explain it. and this in turn it is actually putting strain on our relationship he's always complaining about it but I wont go on top cuz it hurts to much and its just not a good situation.

So I was talking to my friend about it ( weird eh) and he said that maybe I didn't "pop my cherry" (hymen. or however its spelt) I don't think that is possible because we have been having sex for so long and what not

Also is there anyway for me to be on top without it hurting. I hate the idea of me being on top but its only fair right?? and if it wouldn't hurt I wouldn't mind so much. even if I don't feel anything at all it would keep him happy.

help?

xx

Maybe you need to try a different position.

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a purpose to human life, no matter who is controlling it,
is to love whoever is around to be loved
- kurt vonnegut

If it's painful even then, then I'm not sure what to tell you. On top probably just doesn't work for you and he'll have to understand that.

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"When, I wonder, and where will there be relief?"
But he knew the answer: never and nowhere.

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Try doggy style instead, that's a lot less painful and awkward and it feels great.

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we do... its one of my favorites

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Quote: from crazy4you at 10:23 pm on June 30, 2008

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Try doggy style instead, that's a lot less painful and awkward and it feels great.

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we do... its one of my favorites

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