One thing I want to start of by saying is it's sweet that you thought about her and you didn't act on it due to the fear of her being a re-bound. It shows that you respect her as a person. The fact that this girl has been flirting with you makes me think she likes you however is sending mixed signals. She shows signs of liking you, however she has clearly said that she doesn't see you in that way. To be honest she doesn't seem like a girl you should get your hopes on because she is play with you.
None deserves to have their feeling played with, which is what she is doing because she is clearly flirting with you however doesn't show anything when you actually try to get somewhere with her. I understand she doesn't want to ruin the friendship however her flirting doesn't make it any easier so maybe talk to her about it. However she might be one of those girls that flirt with all her guy friends.
You need to find a girl who has an interest in you like you do her because you want someone with likewise feelings otherwise you will just continue to be disappointed. Go out with your drinking buddies and have a look at other potential females that you could get with because who knows the right girl might be around the next corner. You just have to move on until you find the right one.
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