so i was talking to my boyfriend today about his hairdresser and i was like oh, go fuck her then or something and joking around (we joke about his crush on her) and he was like nah, i wouldn't.
and in a non joking way at all he was like her husband would kill me.
and i was like, so that's the only reason?
and was like well that's the most important reason i think... what?? no, it should be that your girlfriend would kill you....
and i got kind of pissed off... like that's the most important reason?? not that you don't want to, not because you love someone else, but because their partner would beat you up??