That's your call, not ours. Just because you think you're not controlling doesn't make it true. People can see things different ways. The only thing you can do is have a heart-to-heart with him and see what your next step is. I think this is the same thing I told you when you posted this yesterday or the day before.
I'm not controlling. I use to be for sure! ex, His parents want him to move to his aunts in another province. I suggested we moved, but to our own place. He then made it quite clear that he doesn't want to move at all. I left the issue alone. But every time he goes to his parents, he comes home and yells at me like I won't let him go. They are causing so many problems.
And I have had that many heart to hearts, he just doesn't get it. Why would he. He doesn't want to believe his parents are trying to ruin his relationship. Even when we have those times that he sees what I'm on about. He forgets or ignores the issue.
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Quote: from mo money17 at 1:35 pm on July 27, 2008
After six years, you should try your hardest to hold on. If you love him, that is...
Quote: from Loner Dragon at 1:43 pm on July 27, 2008
give it one more shot and if not move on cause damn for six years i would think that it's pretty important
I've given it that many "One more shots". I've been saying that for 2 years now.
I do love him, but I don't see how it's going to work when he never stands up for me, and his parents continuously get involved. At this rate, they will be deciding ever choice we'll ever have to make.
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Duke
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Well then, I guess you either suck it up and keep going the way you are, or you bounce. It doesn't seem that anything has changed in 6 years. But again, that's up to you.
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It's not exactly wasted. It was good while it lasted.
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xcutioners
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Tell him to keep himself clean and start listening to himself before arguing.
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TigressaLynnMae
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If he lets his family come between you, then I'm so sorry. :(
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