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I just told him that I'm bored in the relationship

Replies: 5 — Last Post July 25 3:23pm by byebyebeautyful

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( Lulamae )

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Not a nice thing to tell, but he says that he's happy about how honest I am. He also knows that I've been feeling this way for months.

It's like we've slipped into a routine...I feel comfortable, but I don't get butterflies anymore. We were apart for 4 weeks and they flashed up...only to die in a few hours.

How can we work on getting them back?

I know many will say that we should break up, but I think we just need a solution.

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xyztruffs

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I don't think you'll get the spark back without a break...

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danny240591

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you need to get out of the routine you spoke of do something different, anything different just to mix it up either that or split up

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BackPorch

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The only thing I can think of would be to spend more time apart, not talk on the phone as much, do other things, do things with other people..

Just break the routine.

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Quote: from xyztruffs at 5:20 pm on July 25, 2008

I don't think you'll get the spark back without a break...

QFT. Breaks are helpful.

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byebyebeautyful

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i think your love might be over but that doesnt mean your not attached to him, you are really used to him

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