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How can they?
Replies: 10Last Post July 25 6:10pm by Just Waiting Here
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( Justins Luvmuffin )


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How can parents just tell you you can't talk to the person you love? I mean, if you and that person are in love shouldn't you have the right to talk? Don't you hate how parents just...do that? It's so hard for me and my boyfriend...we have to fight to talk, fight to stay together, fight for...for everything! I don't get why it's so hard! We love each other so fucking much! Why does it have to be so hard?! I mean, are we really meant to be?! And he keeps saying they're just tests to see how much we love each other! There's too many tests! Ugh! Somebody kill me, PLEASE!  

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Because they own you till your 18

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as soon as you start paying the bill....you can complain all you want

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they sure own u till ur 18!

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Quote: from skittybaby at 5:57 pm on July 25, 2008

Because they own you till your 18

basically

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please type in the normal font.

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Well, tell your parents it is either daughter who dates a guy and lives in the same house with you, or a daughter who dates another guy who ISN'T. If they REALLY don't like you, theyll say no. But chances are, theyll allow you to be together.

My parents don't want me getting a girlfriend AT ALL. Luckily for THEM, no girl I like ever likes me back

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Quote: from skittybaby at 5:57 pm on July 25, 2008

Because they own you till your 18

^ this

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They can, because it's their way to protect you.  Regardless of you feelings, they've been through it, they've seen and heard stories of what's happened to others, and for parents, that's scary.  I don't know what the situation is where you are, but some families also don't agree with dating until a certain age.

Whatever their reasons... it's genearlly because they think that it's better for you.  Maybe their worried about you making a commitment you weren't ready to make, maybe they're worried that you're getting taken advantage of, maybe they worry that you're priorities are in the wrong spot, or maybe they just feel that you're too young to be feeling so strongly about something to the point that you do go against what they say and fight it.  Whatever the reason, it's not because they want to hurt you.


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Quote: from Just Waiting Here at 9:05 pm on July 25, 2008

They can, because it's their way to protect you.  Regardless of you feelings, they've been through it, they've seen and heard stories of what's happened to others, and for parents, that's scary.  I don't know what the situation is where you are, but some families also don't agree with dating until a certain age.

Whatever their reasons... it's genearlly because they think that it's better for you.  Maybe their worried about you making a commitment you weren't ready to make, maybe they're worried that you're getting taken advantage of, maybe they worry that you're priorities are in the wrong spot, or maybe they just feel that you're too young to be feeling so strongly about something to the point that you do go against what they say and fight it.  Whatever the reason, it's not because they want to hurt you.


No. His parents KNOW we love each other. They just don't like ME. For no reason whatsoever.

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Quote: from Justins Luvmuffin at 6:06 pm on July 25, 2008

Quote: from Just Waiting Here at 9:05 pm on July 25, 2008

They can, because it's their way to protect you. Regardless of you feelings, they've been through it, they've seen and heard stories of what's happened to others, and for parents, that's scary. I don't know what the situation is where you are, but some families also don't agree with dating until a certain age.  

 Whatever their reasons... it's genearlly because they think that it's better for you. Maybe their worried about you making a commitment you weren't ready to make, maybe they're worried that you're getting taken advantage of, maybe they worry that you're priorities are in the wrong spot, or maybe they just feel that you're too young to be feeling so strongly about something to the point that you do go against what they say and fight it. Whatever the reason, it's not because they want to hurt you.


 No. His parents KNOW we love each other. They just don't like ME. For no reason whatsoever.


I don't know if it's that they don't like, or they don't like how their son is acting because of his love for you.

Love comes in different forms, and I have no right to determine who is in love and who isn't, nor will I try.  As your parents, they have this right, and as a parent, they also have the innate desire to protect their child.  If they see that the child could be much MORE hurt if it continues, or hurt in his future, they'll probably put a stop when they think the hurt will be less.


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