My parents had me and were excited for a boy and everything. But everything they had wished for in a boy didnt happen. I dont like sports, (I suck), I'm not a ladies man, and I'm really down about it.

My parents divorced YEARS AGO, a while back, and recently I've been feeling sad about it. I'm not masculine, in fact, I'm just really sad alot. I feel like im a pushover...no reason to exist. I dont even feel motivated to do anything anymore.

i used to be like this.  you have to put in the effort and get nothing back for a long time but once you start trying. eventually people will start trying back.  don't give up.  find something you like and get good at it

There are a lot of teens who feel bad about themselves because they feel like they have disappointed their parents, and I think it's the parents fault in a way for expecting too much out of someone. Tell your parents how you feel and who you are. And just be open about it. You don't have to be a ladies' man. The time will come when you will find someone who is soulmate.Don't go to fast because you might end up with the wrong person and you might hurt someone else's feelings along the way.

The divorce part is not your fault. If you're parents made that decision you must accept it and learn to live with it. There isn't much you can do about it, just be happy that at least you still have them even if they're not together. Everyone has their own opinion of masculinity. People say it's muscles and cuteness, but is it really? Is that what matters in the end? Of course not. It doesn't matter. There's a reason fore evryone to exist!!! We all came here for a reason so don't feel like there is no reason to live. Find your place in life. I hope this motivates you a little.

YOU CAN DO IT!!!!

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Thank you Isobel

For modding the deep thoughts and random shitty theism forum
Aka "Religion and Philosophy: The forum that makes a case for Eugenics