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Replies: 9Last Post July 26, 2008 8:29pm by Anonymous
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So, erm...last summer, my friend and I had a one night stand. Stupid, but I did have feelings for him before that. We ended up not talking for a while.

Well. My boyfriend decided to go apply for a job, and he got it. While I was waiting for him to finish filling out his new hire papers, my friend walks up to me. "Remember me?" So yeah. My boyfriend and the friend are now co-workers.

They had to go out of town for some fer training session, which was about 1 1/2 hours away. They were together pretty much the entire day (with two other people, of course).

My boyfriend gets on AIM and explains how his day was. He mentioned something about "male bonding", and my heart skipped a beat.

I'm terrified that the friend brought up what happened last summer, and my boyfriend is pissed at me for it. I dunno. He seemed a little off talking to me. Yeah, we discussed future dates, but he still seemed iffy. I dunno.

I tend to worry about things that probably never happened, but who knows. I'm scared shitless.

If he is pissed at me though, I wouldn't know why. The whole thing happened months before I even met him, and I've never brought it up, and never planned on it.

Blahh. Should I be as worried as I am? I've felt like I could puke ALL day.

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8:18 pm on July 26, 2008
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dude that sucks...  im sorry!

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newman

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No, you shouldn't be worried that you and your friend did stuff in the past and your bf now knows about it.  You should be worried that "male bonding" might mean "gay sex."  Uh-oh!

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TemperFire


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that happend before yous were together, not like it was cheating or anything. if he dont like it then there isnt much you can do about it

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Vbby


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Juno much?
oh you dont want your boyfriend to know you had a one night stand? ohh. ask the one timer to keep your shit to himself.

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I think it will be fine.

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silverrose42


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Honestly, you need to ask the fuck buddy if he said anything, and to please not if he hasn't already...

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I'd certainly not want to talk to a guy who's had a one night stand with my girlfriend. I mean it would be too unbearable, it is slutty. But since it was months before she even met me, Id have easier time letting go of it.

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Daaanng!! I thought you were talkin about "South Park"!!!

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I don't want to bring it up to either of them. It was stupid, and I'd like to forget it, but it just worries me that the friend hasn't and he's been talking about it. Blahhh.

I kind of just want to crawl into a hole and hide for a while...at least until I find out what happened.


8:29 pm on July 26, 2008
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