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Replies: 14 — Last Post July 28, 2008 2:01pm by TigressaLynnMae
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Ok, so when me and my gf have sex she likes saying no, stop, etc. I'll ask if she wants to continue even if she says no. She likes the sex to be a simulated rape, but I don't know if I should go along with it.

Girls, what's your opinion?

11:20 am on July 28, 2008
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Maybe she likes S&M

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pumpkin475


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ewww that doesn't sound healthy

if it makes u uncomfortable, talk to her about it. see what yall can work out

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i think u need to tlk to her bout that. =/

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Not everyone likes the same thing.

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Madison23


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Hmmm, role playing is good, but if your not comfortable tell her. Sounds like its putting you in a an akward position and sex shouldnt be that way.
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its just role play

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some girls like a simulated rap. it's best in those types of situations or anything that's new to you or your partner to have a safe word that either of you can say if you really do want to stop. that way, she can still say "no" so as not to break the mood, but you'll know that she doesn't really mean it. true story, but my ex and i used the word "seahorse" if one of us was uncomfortable with anything.  lol.

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that does sound uncomfortable

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Awkward..
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If she likes it like that go along with it.
The only downside is that if she ever actually doesn't want to have sex, then you wouldn't know the difference.

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Quote: from HazelEyedAngel at 2:32 pm on July 28, 2008
If she likes it like that go along with it.
The only downside is that if she ever actually doesn't want to have sex, then you wouldn't know the difference.

Yeah, that's the biggest thing though..cause I really don't mind doing it though, but I don't want to force her to have sex either.

11:36 am on July 28, 2008
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it would be confusing. like what would she say if she really wanted to stop?
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Quote: from jennay at 3:37 pm on July 28, 2008
it would be confusing. like what would she say if she really wanted to stop?

I asked that. She said if she really didn't want to, she wouldn't even let me take off her pants.

1:16 pm on July 28, 2008
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That is not normal...:S

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