Now, I think family is important, and worth the money, but let me say this.
-The cousin that is getting married was supposed to come back for my older sister's wedding from a vacation.  She intentionally prolonged her trip (after she had been there at least a few months) for another couple of days and didn't come to my sister's wedding.
- The day I was moving to the other side of the country, she didn't bother to come downstairs and say bye to me.  Only when her mom forced her to come, she came.

Now, throughout the year, my dad has been getting money for me to pay some stuff.  I've given him over 7, 000 dollars at this point, and my mom knows this.

My mom tells my dad that ~I~ have NO money because he's "taken" it all from me -__-'.  And that I can't come back because of that reason.

This is why it's scary to tell my parents anything, they twist my words just to put themselves against each other -__-'.

Just go in there and tell them off.

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Everyone twists words in order to benefit themselves. Focusing on what is convenient and ignoring that which is detrimental is common nature.

Just go in there and tell them off.

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Yeah, I know, it's just irritating that they do that, especially your own parents.  My dad would tell my mom that I would say things like, "she thinks your better off gone, and not here any more."  "She thinks you ever did anything for her."

I mean... seriously -__- grow up, deal with your problems, and don't use me as 'proof', lol.

Haha, I don't live with either of them any more, so it's very rare for these kindso f things to happen, not to mention they can't drag me into the middle of an argument :).