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We're an upper-middle class family, but that doesn't mean we don't have a history of domestic abuse. My dad was yelling at my mom this morning, and he started to push her around. I yelled at him, he yelled at me back and approached me, so I took a swing at his face. Then all hell broke loose. He started to go berserk but all I had to do stand near the doorway because he doesn't have the guts to use violence in public. After we all cooled down, I apologized for hitting him. I don't regret what I did because he's been hitting my mom for over 20 years, and this was the first time that I was able to physically pay him back. But man, it's gonna be awkward from now on.
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gregorymahony
Dairy Product Addict
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PROTECT your mother
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ThatGuy411
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nice!!
------- You can't really help people until they hit rock bottom, but by then you've lost interest...
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TheX
Quality Control Engineer
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IM PROUD OF YOU YOUNG ONE
------- life is a bitch...so make her yours =P
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6:16 pm on July 10, 2008 | Joined Feb. 2008 | 36 Days Active Join to learn more about TheX Maryland, United States | Straight Male | 340 Posts | 731 Points
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bigdperk1191
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i had a similar situation. believe me you will always feel akward now.
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Tiko310
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daym
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kristen16
Professional
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yea it will be odd but Im glad u stuck up for ur mom. Doesn't she do it though???
------- The worst part about loving you is watching you love someone else.
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Pebbles123
Dairy Product Addict
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Your mom is stupid for not leaving. :( I want to stab people in the eye like him.
------- If you got love for me, i got love for you. If you don't f**k with me, i don't f**k with you.
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Cake and Sodomy
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That's good that you stuck up for your mom.
------- A kick in the balls? I don't think so. That would be a cunt punt, because you sir, are a pussy.
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Themouser
Personal Assistant
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It deserves to be repeated, PROTECT YOUR MOTHER Its a natural response. He is stronger, she is your mother. It will be no more or less awkward than it has been for the last 20 years, just sorta different. And its good to apologize as well. He is your dad after all. But any guy should expect a son to defend his mother, deep down, he may even be proud of you for doing it. Maybe now the reasons for the abuse can start to be addressed, now that he just can't steam roll over her anymore. There are things that can be done to maybe save the marriage and them both enjoy their comfy years. If not, then the comfy years only bring him more time to abuse her, and yes, she should leave. No one deserves to live in fear and to be beat. Post edited at 6:24 pm on July 10, 2008 by Themouser
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luvsos
Wealthy Hobo
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nicee
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6:19 pm on July 10, 2008 | Joined May 2008 | 96 Days Active Join to learn more about luvsos Kentucky, United States | Straight Female | 4063 Posts | 5621 Points
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