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my friend is an idiot
Replies: 10Last Post July 12 9:49am by AndWhenHeFalleth
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my idiot friend is 18 turning 19 and he got his gf knocked up...was it stupid of me to tell him that im here for him and that if he needs a babysitter im here for him? some ppl ar saying that it was dumb and i should not help him but idk what do you guys think?

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I don't think that's stupid at all to want to help him out, and support him. Just don't let him and his gf take advantage of that offer.

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If he's a friend, then yeah, you should help him out.

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dude. be a good friend. ya he fucked up but he's obviously going to need help

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If i where you i would maybe wait? see if he needs help them ask him if he complains about the baby.

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i think thats was a really nice thing to say. cause its never easy having a baby at a young age! and i totally don't think you'll ever have to baby sit! trust me, my sister had a baby and she never leaves her baby haha

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Yeah help him out. Just make sure they don't overuse that offer. People do need support even in the unsuitable events that occur

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It was a good thing, just make sure you can hold up to it, and don't let them take advantage of you.  Since they're a younger couple, they'll mtl try something like that.  So WATCH IT.  

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umm.. be there for him. yeah. jasonzlpa's comment was good. just don't let them take advantage of you.

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its good of you to be there for him, but just dont let him take advantage of you when it comes to baby-sitting.

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If he's actually going to step up and take responsibility, then by all means be supportive of him.  Yes, he made a mistake, but everyone makes mistakes.  His little slip up just happens to be a hell of a lot more life altering than most.

Just be sure and make boundaries clear.  Be completely upfront about how much you're willing to do, and what you won't put up with (e.g. getting stuck with the baby while they go out partying every weekend).  

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