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ok well my boyfriend is 21 and im 16 and im just tripping becuz im going to have my baby in like 1 weeks and i dont know what to do becuz everyone is saying hes gonna get locked up when hes there and all this other stuff and then i was thinking sayin that hes not around but still putting his name on his birth certificate but just changing the year he was born but then people are saying they will find him all and look him up but if i change birthday they cant find him right? anyone that was in the situation help me! what did the drs and social workers ask you about you babies father
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11:01 am on July 12, 2008
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MeTal luVsOs
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???? what thats fucked up bigg timee
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lmc11591
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what?
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11:02 am on July 12, 2008 | Joined: June 2005 | Days Active: 297 Join to learn more about lmc11591 Colorado, United States | Straight Female | Posts: 6,327 | Points: 10,189
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skittybaby
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They cant do anything about it
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AndWhenHeFalleth
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I suppose it could be a problem, but I don't really see it. Though my daughter's biological father is not on her birth certificate (my choice), everyone (including my midwives and doctor) knew he was in his 30's, and no one did anything. In most places, they seem to leave it up to the parents to press charges (though that's only from what I've noticed).
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lashful
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Sorry, I'm confused. Are you saying he is going away for statutory rape? If so, as a man, he should just face his punishment.
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warrior chick
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wow, you are in one hell of a predicument, you do what your heart tells you to do!
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kendall716
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Hey there, First off, I'm assuming that you have had pre-natal checkups and ultrasounds? If so, did your boyfriend come along with you? If your nurse knew that the father of your child was over 18 he or she is legally suppose to turn you in to the judicial system. This actually just happened to a friend of mine. Now, I know that sounds hasty and scary but don't worry. They will do the initial court procedures but if your mother and father aren't willing to press charges against him, ultimately the court case will be dismissed. Let's face it, the judge isn't stupid. He or she knows that they can't take the father of your child to jail or else they will have to fork out money for you child support. You mentioned wanting to change the date on your child's birth certificate. Do you knwo how much that would effect your child? They would be held back so much and it would be noticable that they would mature at a faster rate then the other children. It's not logical. Also, I doubt that it's possible or legal. Unless you want your child to be considered a bastard, the father has to sign the birth certificate. This also entitles you to child support. You're going to need that additional income with a child. Are your parents involved with this pregnancy? Do they know that the father is over-age? Do they seem angry with it? Ultimately it would be up to them whether or not to press charges on him so those would be the questions to ask yourself. If you really think that they would, maybe it would be better to just tell the doctors that you are unsure of a child. This would keep him out of trouble but could cause trouble if in the long run he decides to skip out on you and the baby. He would have no legal claim on the child, therefor not have to pay any money too you. It sounds to me as if you have a lot of thinking to do.
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