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My Wedding Day
Replies: 14Last Post July 17, 2008 11:45am by piercedxangel
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Choice Votes Percent  
Call the police 1 2%
Get family to remove them 6 17%
Let them stay, but ignore them 12 35%
Let them stay, get reconnected 5 14%
Other, what? 10 29%
Vote Now! 34 Votes Cast
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My parents divorced when I was 4 cause he had an affair. He eventually married this women. She already had 2 kids.

When I was 15, he decided to stop talking to me. His wife always tired to make things sore between us, and she finally did it.

Well, I'm 20 right now, and I might be getting married in a couple years. The wife is the type that would say, "She is your daughter, we have every right to be there." She wouldn't do it to reconnect us, but to cause a fight.

She is a very immature women.

So, lets say on my wedding they did show up, what should i do? Remember, so far I haven't spoken to him in 5 years.


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Permious

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Just marry the bitch.

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its not worth it to cause drama. let them stay. you might find that he is still your father and you still love him.

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Try to talk to your dad at first, but ignore her.  If there is trouble, just get close friends or other family members to ask them to leave.

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I think the option that would cause the least drama is to let them stay but ignore them.

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Well, if your wedding day *might* be a few years away, then I really wouldn't worry too much right now.

But it's not really your fault if his new wife has that kind of influence on him. You're his daughter, so he should have put a stop to that a LONG time ago.

I think your dad is being more silly than she is.

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It's YOUR day. Invite them, sure, let them come. Don't talk to them unless they talk to you, but just be nice and dont let them bother you because that will be one of the best days of your life.

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let them stay and ignore them if she starts anything get them removed

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Haha
I'd kick them the fuck out.

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Other.   Let your father stay, try to reconnect if you want.  Get your family to get rid of the girl.  

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Quote: from xroses are redx at 9:31 am on July 17, 2008

I think the option that would cause the least drama is to let them stay but ignore them.

right

unless they start to create problems
then and only then get them removed

otherwise let them feel like assholes

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Quote: from swtpie at 9:29 am on July 17, 2008

My parents divorced when I was 4 cause he had an affair. He eventually married this women. She already had 2 kids.

When I was 15, he decided to stop talking to me. His wife always tired to make things sore between us, and she finally did it.

Well, I'm 20 right now, and I might be getting married in a couple years. The wife is the type that would say, "She is your daughter, we have every right to be there." She wouldn't do it to reconnect us, but to cause a fight.  

She is a very immature women.

So, lets say on my wedding they did show up, what should i do? Remember, so far I haven't spoken to him in 5 years.


I would have a talk with your father, telling him about your plans to have a wedding. Then you can probably figure out if you want to invite him or not. Either way, I would only invite your father and not his wife. Make him understand why. This wedding is for you and YOUR family not his.

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If you don't invite them, how would they just show up? If you don't tell them, they wouldn't know when or where it is.

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Quote: from bigred23 at 10:06 am on July 17, 2008

If you don't invite them, how would they just show up? If you don't tell them, they wouldn't know when or where it is.

My grandparents would definitely tell them.


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piercedxangel

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Cant you just invite HIM.

Or dont invite them at all, its your special day you dont want any drama.
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