With that established, I get jealous when he spends more time with "the guys" than with me.

I'm not really "in" with what they do. For instance, I don't have a DS or a Playstation, so I get kinda lost when he and his buddies get into convos about the games.

He's told me I'm the closest friend he has, and I believe that. But he also feels awkward spending one-on-one time with him. We're both single, and even though I liked him for a couple years, he wasn't interested, and I've moved on.

I understand guys need to hang out with other guys every once in awhile, but damn it, if I'm his best friend, shouldn't we get to spend time, too? How do I feel less jealous about time he spends with "the guys" ?

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It's the friends you can call up at four a.m. that matter. -Marlene Dietrich

OR, you could get other friends to hang out with, it would help with the jealousy on your part if you had other people to hang out with too.

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"Energizer Bunny arrested, charged with battery."

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he sounds like a pretty normal guy to me

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Good Luck.

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They're people who want to screw around all the time,
which interests me not at all.
God knows we've done that, been there,
and we don't want to do that any more.