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Replies: 3Last Post July 16 12:02pm by MariJani
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Ok I am 14 and I just I have had only 2 serious relationships do u think tht I am old enough to date?

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There is no set age for being old enough. It's about what you feel personally and how you can deal with your emotions. To be honest at that age very few people have serious commitments to their relationships. That doesn't mean you can't date though, just don't expect your relationships to last a few months or longer.

How long were those serious relationships of yours? Two sounds fine really, not many people have much experience of dating at all at that age.

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Dating is not really an age thing so much as an experience thing. Do you feel ready to date?

What do you mean by dating. You have had 2 relationships and have not dated? Or do you mean should you have already had those relationships?

To be in a relationship you have to be able to be old enough to understand emotions and love, and to be ready for physical and emotional intimacy. Do you feel that you are?

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Well, what exactly do you consider 'dating' to be?

Do I think you are old enough to go out with a bunch of guys and spend the night with them? no.

Do I think you are old enough to go to a movie with someone that you like? Sure!

As long as you are fully aware that sometimes people have ulterior motives you will be fine.  Don't be every so trusting to the point where you are oblivious to what is going on around you.  Always remember that you don't 'owe' anyone anything for taking you out somewhere.  

But to answer your question, I think it is perfectly fine for you to go out and have some fun if you are sure that you are responsible enough to understand the difference between good and bad signals.

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