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How to tell a girl nicely that I cancelled our date?
Replies: 26 — Last Post July 18 10:05am by youcef
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I asked out my friend on a date suddenly and she said yes. But for the past few days, I've realized that I was never really attracted to her and the only reason I asked her out was some weird hormonal effect. I've realized that she totally isn't my type (both looks and personality-wise).

But we already have a date planned the first week we get back to college this August. How do I tell her nicely that I don't want the date anymore and just want to be friends? (because immediately after she said yes to me, she's been playing hard-to-get and acting flirty but on-and-off and ignoring me sometimes).

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say something came up

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Hoop chic08

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well.................

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Troll1000


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just go out and have a good time anyway? nothing has to happen

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Raiku


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"hey bitch, i wont be seeing you anymore. the fact is that i know youll be cheating on me"

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"I think we should be just friends" [:

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tell the truth

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hungryboi


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Damn man.  Good luck with that.  You don't want ot lose a friend.

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Go through with the first date, and if it doesn't work out. Break it to her slowly the day after.

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Twilove


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don't cancel but instead go out and tell her either while on you date or afterwards that you had (or are having) a good time but that it'd be better to stay friends....

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brittanybubble


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Go with her on the date. Then after, tell her that it didn't really work out.

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thesketch


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pretend to have a seizure in the middle of the date

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daddydwm


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dont even be stupid to go out with her without telling her the truth...next time you talk to her explain that you feel the friendship is more important and you dont want to do anything to jeopardize that. then if she is willing knowing the rules go on the date

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Evolutionism


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Quote: from Troll1000 at 3:55 pm on July 15, 2008
just go out and have a good time anyway? nothing has to happen

Yup I agree. Unless it's clear that it's date with romantic intentions.

Also, Like BAMM, you may want to take some more time to think about these things next time you ask a girl on a date.

Good luck. You're in a sticky situation.  

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