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Replies: 14 — Last Post July 11, 2008 12:50pm by Latin Muscle
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what your views would be on having disabled partners/gf/ whatever. Would it bother you or would you see past the disability... u can be honest  

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Depends on what disability.

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If that person were able to see past their own disability in order to have a great personality, Then yes. Definitely. But if they were the type of person who was always complaining about having the disability and saying that they are the most pitied person in the world, then it would be really hard to look past it. Some complaining is natural, but I just mean to an exorbitant degree.  

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people are people, doesnt matter what there like on the outside

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HOW disabled?
I think I could only deal with it if he was blind.
Anything other than that, no.

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no.

but im really shallow.

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my friend has a boyfriend with a short leg and arm and they are so cute together and she doesn't even like notice it basically because he is really good looking despite that.

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it really would depend on the disability.

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Quote: from ashleyacid at 7:19 pm on July 11, 2008
Depends on what disability.

well im physically disabled but im far from a person who self pitys themselves. i am the way i am. Just wondered what u thought.. Nothing mentally disabled or anything

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Personally, it would be an extremely difficult decision for me to make.  I mean, you really do have to think logically about the situation.  For instance, if the disability is preventing my partner from going to work and such, how can I marry him?  I would have to solely rely on myself and my income in order to provide for the both of us.

It really depends on the disability.  I don't think that I would date/marry someone with a severe disability because it would just be too difficult for me to handle.  However, I do not see ADD or ADHD or a disability along those lines as severe.  Like I said before, it really depends on the severity of the disability and the effect that it is having on the other person.

I don't judge one according to whether they're disabled or not (physically and mentally) however, it is different when you are thinking about a relationship with that person.  I would say that it really depends on the situation.  

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What kind of disability?
Like a learning disability or a physical one?

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Quote: from JackieisBlue at 7:20 pm on July 11, 2008
no.

but im really shallow.


appreciate your honesty guys!

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Quote: from LaMotta at 7:23 pm on July 11, 2008
What kind of disability?
Like a learning disability or a physical one?

read up a couple

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Being physically disabled mysellf I can honestly say I wouldn't. I'd want someone who could look after me.

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No, sorry.


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