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Girl Troubles (Who doesn't have them, right?)
Replies: 16Last Post Aug. 28 12:47pm by nik1
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So I've been dating this girl for 2 weeks now. We've just been kinda chilling. Going to the movies. Hanging around on grassy field. The typical date things. We're both heading to the same college in the fall. Last night, she started talking about "us" and said she doesn't want to be in a committed relationship just yet (although left the possibility open in the future). At the same time, she also said she really likes me and wants to keep dating. She just doesn't want to make it "official." Does anybody have any advice for me since I'm a bit confused?

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Praise the Lard


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keep dating and don't make it "official"

it's my professional opinion that all these terms like "official" "exclusive" and "boyfriend/girlfriend" are societal labels which have no real bearing and only work perfectly for the illusive/non-existent "average person"

so my advice is just go with the flow. it works best.

Post edited at 12:36 pm on Aug. 28, 2008 by Praise the Lard

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lovemetwicetoday


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Man oh man this is nothing compared to my story....

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REDHOTCHEERIOS


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I suggest keep the idea of it being official in the near future....and enjoy being single and be happy when it is official

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fouad


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Quote: from Praise the Lard at 10:35 pm on Aug. 28, 2008

keep dating and don't make it "official"

This.

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Scandol5Mossie


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dooo the same thing she doesnt want to play you and she wants to see other guys at the same time this leaves you open to see other girls...hold on to that one lol..

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Rtheory


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Happened with my girlfriend. We were unoffical for a-lot of months.

Let it happen, be un-offical for a while. But when the time is right? Ask her out.


Good luck.

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biggmommaj


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just another way of saying don't get to attached she doesn't know what she wants yet,especially if u guys r going to collage

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jamesshadowwolf

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Just keep dating her if you really love her.

she might not want it "officail" yet. but mabye in the future.

but what she means is she wants to make sure your right for her by the sounds.

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shen10200


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if ur ready to be official and shes not then u have no use for her

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Pixie90


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just go with the flow..keep ur options open and hav fun!!!

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Quote: from fouad at 8:36 pm on Aug. 28, 2008

Quote: from Praise the Lard at 10:35 pm on Aug. 28, 2008

keep dating and don't make it "official"

This.

so, so, so true

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Innuendo Girl


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She's keeping her options open. College is a huge change, and you'll both be meeting a lot of people. She's probably protecting herself from a lot of potential confusion if she meets another guy on campus who she really likes while she's still seeing you.

Could happen to you, too. So see this as a good thing.


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Rebeccahh


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just keep doing what you are doing.

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she likes you, but wants to see other ppl to know if your better...

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