Okay, one of my really good friends hooked up with my ex, in which i still have feelings for, but we havent been together for a while, but i still am crazy for him. Should i be mad at her? She knows i still like him? idk what to do..
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She sounds like a backstabbing whore to me.
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I would be pretty upset.
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then why is he your ex? and you have no right to be mad..i mean, you can be jealous but no right to be mad.
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Crimsonpain
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nahh., my friends did the same thing it was like all the guys in our group where dating my frinds, breaking up and dating their girlfriends friends.
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ooh dear, that is a no-go area isnt it!
If I were you id talk to her, have it out and find out why she'd do it.
...maybe few too many drinks n inhinbitions lowered...
I get that ur no longer with him, not your "property", but Id never do that to a friend. Especially if I knew they still had feelings for them
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She should have respected your feelings for him and stayed away, but since she didn't then you could be the bigger person and respect hers.
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envythesin
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Only you can decide whether to be mad or not. But it is immoral to go out with a friend's ex.
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She's a hoe!!
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yes.
Be pissed.
It is totally understandable!
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bangalterdaft
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I would make my feelings known to the both of them in a calm civil manner. Maybe this is a good time to move onward and upward. If they are happy together I would do my best to respect their decision. Don't waste too much time being upset. I would give yourself time to vent it out (naturally) and then move on.
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Yes, you should be mad. Tell her that you don't think it's right and you. Tell her that you still have feelings for your ex and it doesn't seem right if she goes out with him. Also tell her that as a friend, it isn't a nice thing to do by going with your ex. You know he's your past but you're still in 'love' with him in a way. Ask her if she could do you a favor and not go out with him. If she continues, end your relationship with her. I know it may be hard but think about it; I don't think she would want you going out with her ex-boyfriend if you were her and vice versa. Her going out with your ex was a backstabbing move.
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She sounds like a backstabbing whore to me.
