so im 17 and my girl friend is 17. today she called me up crying saying her mom was criticizing her weight again and she needed to get out of the house. my girl friend is 4 11 and 97 pounds so shes not fat at all! her mom said to her your thin but you could be thinner. she told her you don't exercise and thats such bull bc my gfs a dancer and shes constantly working out. but anyway, i picked her up and took her back to my place. i went downstairs to get something to eat and when i came back up my gf was in the bathroom. i heard her throw up and i open the door and i saw her with her finger down her throat throwing up and i screamed at her are you crazy dont do that! and she was like you dont get it i have to im fat i have to i have to and she just kept saying i have to and cried. i honestly dont know what to do?? any advice??
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You need to talk to her and she needs to get some counseling so she will stop doing that.
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wow. tell someone important and get her help.
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That made me cry. You need to tell her you'll always be there for her. Tell her shes beautiful the way she is and that you wouldnt want her any other way. Make her feel loved and let her forget about the shit her mom's shoving down her throat.
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my mom is like that too. lately she's been obsessed with everyone's weight including herself. pm me
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but i have a feeling she did she because her mom told her your thin but you could be thinner. i honestly feel killing her but i wont. i just feel so bad and all my gf wants to do is be left alone
Be there for her...it will be hard for you, but it's so much harder for her, and she needs you right now. Tell her how beautiful you think she is, and say that her mother has warped her mind...she is perfectly fine in terms of weight. Of course, depending on how long her mother has been making her feel like this, and how long her eating disorder has gone on, she might be past the point where your words can help. She probably needs therapy, even if it's just a guidance counselor...and her mom needs to be taught a lesson by a therapist! I think it's disgusting how a parent can warp their child's mind like that...
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my mom is like that too. lately she's been obsessed with everyone's weight including herself. pm me
