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should it be a secret?
Replies: 10Last Post Sep. 1, 2008 12:36pm by HuffleHaire
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My girlfriend and I broke up on friday. I am one that tends to talk to people about my problems or issues, which my ex is not and doesn't talk to anyone about anything. Well I told a few of our friends that we broke up but I'm sure she won't tell them so I told them not to tell anyone.

Should or shouldn't the fact that we broke up be a secret?

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If one of you doesn't want it to be, then it shouldn't.  It involves both of you, and if you want to talk about it, you should.

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I guess it really depends on if you and her feel comfortable if people knew. I don't see the big deal on keeping it a secret though because if you 2 broke up for good then eventually it'll be found out anyways

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they are going to figure it out eventually

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Wouldn't your friends find out anyway? I think it is better that your friends know.

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it shouldnt be a secret
theres no reason for it

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nope

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i dont see why it has to be a secret, i mean yall broke up....ok?

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Why should it be a secret?
If you broke up permanently, then what good is it to keep it all to yourself?

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You are no longer attached to her. If talking is what will make you feel better, that's what matters. Go for it.

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