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Afraid of rejection
Replies: 31 — Last Post Aug. 31, 2008 9:33pm by Miss Prophetess
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My dad is a very intimidating guy. He is also very mean a lot of the time, and I'm kind of afraid of him.

I really want to ask him if I can order something online, but I'm afraid he'll get mad and say no.

He's going to be home in a little bit and I want to ask him then, but I'm still kind of scared. I don't want to get rejected!

What should I do!!?!??!

And please don't reply saying ''just ask him'', because that is easier said than done for me.

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You're not alone dude..
hence my sn\

You're going to have to ask him anyway regardless of what responses you get here, just don't be a polite little pansy (unless he wants you to ask like that) just pretend you're who he wants you to be for the breif minute it will take to ask him.

Post edited at 9:11 pm on Aug. 31, 2008 by HateParents

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Play it safe and just go to bed, man.  Ask at a better time.

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suck it up. the worst he can do is say no.

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Confront him and if he says no ask your mom.

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Quote: from 321go at 9:09 pm on Aug. 31, 2008
Play it safe and just go to bed, man. Ask at a better time.

I've been wanting to ask him for weeks now

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What's so bad about him saying no?  It's not like he'll throw things at you or something...or will he?

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Quote: from littlestoxie at 9:10 pm on Aug. 31, 2008
Confront him and if he says no ask your mom.

My dad has more power in the family.

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Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:10 pm on Aug. 31, 2008
What's so bad about him saying no? It's not like he'll throw things at you or something...or will he?

I already said in my original post that I AM AFRAID OF REJECTION.

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Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:10 pm on Aug. 31, 2008
What's so bad about him saying no? It's not like he'll throw things at you or something...or will he?

Some of you people obviously haven't experienced much shitty parenting.

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Quote: from HateParents at 9:12 pm on Aug. 31, 2008
Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:10 pm on Aug. 31, 2008
What's so bad about him saying no?  It's not like he'll throw things at you or something...or will he?

Some of you people obviously haven't experienced much shitty parenting.

People imagine parents to be nice and caring. And that we just sit down and talk about our problems, like the Brady Bunch.

It's really annoying.

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I know...no need to shout with caps.

It's just, I can understand fear of rejection in the asking someone out sense; but fear of being rejected from ordering something online?  Can you do it without him knowing it?  Get a friend to do it for you and pay them for it?

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Quote: from HateParents at 9:09 pm on Aug. 31, 2008
You're not alone dude..
hence my sn\

You're going to have to ask him anyway regardless of what responses you get here, just don't be a polite little pansy (unless he wants you to ask like that) just pretend you're who he wants you to be for the breif minute it will take to ask him.

That's actually very good advice...thanks man.

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Quote: from HateParents at 9:12 pm on Aug. 31, 2008
Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:10 pm on Aug. 31, 2008
What's so bad about him saying no?  It's not like he'll throw things at you or something...or will he?

Some of you people obviously haven't experienced much shitty parenting.

Pardon me, but she hadn't inferred that her father was abusive, so I said "it's not like he'll throw something at her" to show it wouldn't be so bad.

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Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:13 pm on Aug. 31, 2008
I know...no need to shout with caps.

It's just, I can understand fear of rejection in the asking someone out sense; but fear of being rejected from ordering something online? Can you do it without him knowing it? Get a friend to do it for you and pay them for it?

I AM AFRAID OF REJECTION, NO MATTER WHAT I AM ASKING FOR, THERE IS A POSSIBILITY THAT I WILL GET REJECTED.

And come the hell on, obviously I don't want something delivered to my house without my parents knowing.

Think outside the box.

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