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Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:14 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from HateParents at 9:12 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:10 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

What's so bad about him saying no? It's not like he'll throw things at you or something...or will he?
 
 Some of you people obviously haven't experienced much shitty parenting.

Pardon me, but she hadn't inferred that her father was abusive, so I said "it's not like he'll throw something at her" to show it wouldn't be so bad.


I said he is a very intimidating guy, and he is mean a lot.

Seriously, just get out of the topic.

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the worst he could say is no., and if you dont ask the answer will still be no

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Quote: from Super Duper at 9:14 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:13 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

I know...no need to shout with caps.  

 It's just, I can understand fear of rejection in the asking someone out sense; but fear of being rejected from ordering something online?  Can you do it without him knowing it?  Get a friend to do it for you and pay them for it?


 I AM AFRAID OF REJECTION, NO MATTER WHAT I AM ASKING FOR, THERE IS A POSSIBILITY THAT I WILL GET REJECTED.  

And come the hell on, obviously I don't want something delivered to my house without my parents knowing.

Think outside the box.


Next time DON'T SCREAM AT PEOPLE WHO ARE TRYING TO HELP.

How is it OBVIOUS you didn't want it sent to your house without your parents knowing?  You didn't mention it, so how was it obvious?

I noticed you didn't address my "ask a friend to order it for you" advice...

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Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:16 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Super Duper at 9:14 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:13 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

I know...no need to shout with caps.

  It's just, I can understand fear of rejection in the asking someone out sense; but fear of being rejected from ordering something online? Can you do it without him knowing it? Get a friend to do it for you and pay them for it?


 

  I AM AFRAID OF REJECTION, NO MATTER WHAT I AM ASKING FOR, THERE IS A POSSIBILITY THAT I WILL GET REJECTED.

 And come the hell on, obviously I don't want something delivered to my house without my parents knowing.  

 Think outside the box.


Next time DON'T SCREAM AT PEOPLE WHO ARE TRYING TO HELP.

How is it OBVIOUS you didn't want it sent to your house without your parents knowing? You didn't mention it, so how was it obvious?

I noticed you didn't address my "ask a friend to order it for you" advice...


Ok, are you really that fucking retarded?

It's pretty much common sense that I WANT TO ASK MY DAD AND NOT SECRETLY ORDER SOMETHING ONLINE.

No I'm not going to ask a fucking friend to do something stupid like that.



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Quote: from Super Duper at 9:15 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:14 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from HateParents at 9:12 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:10 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

What's so bad about him saying no?  It's not like he'll throw things at you or something...or will he?

  Some of you people obviously haven't experienced much shitty parenting.

 

 Pardon me, but she hadn't inferred that her father was abusive, so I said "it's not like he'll throw something at her" to show it wouldn't be so bad.


I said he is a very intimidating guy, and he is mean a lot.

Seriously, just get out of the topic.


You seem to be able to voice yourself pretty well, or is it just that your anger can only come out through the Internet, and at home you're repressed from fear of your father?

If you're able to scream and bitch at me, you should be able to do it back to your father!  

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Quote: from Super Duper at 9:18 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:16 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Super Duper at 9:14 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:13 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

I know...no need to shout with caps.    

  It's just, I can understand fear of rejection in the asking someone out sense; but fear of being rejected from ordering something online?  Can you do it without him knowing it?  Get a friend to do it for you and pay them for it?


  I AM AFRAID OF REJECTION, NO MATTER WHAT I AM ASKING FOR, THERE IS A POSSIBILITY THAT I WILL GET REJECTED.    

  And come the hell on, obviously I don't want something delivered to my house without my parents knowing.

  Think outside the box.


 

 Next time DON'T SCREAM AT PEOPLE WHO ARE TRYING TO HELP.  

 How is it OBVIOUS you didn't want it sent to your house without your parents knowing?  You didn't mention it, so how was it obvious?  

 I noticed you didn't address my "ask a friend to order it for you" advice...


Ok, are you really that fucking retarded?

It's pretty much common sense that I WANT TO ASK MY DAD AND NOT SECRETLY ORDER SOMETHING ONLINE.

No I'm not going to ask a fucking friend to do something stupid like that.


Why is it stupid?  If they do it for you, then you'll be getting what you want, AND you won't have to ask your father.

Really, it's a good solution.

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Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:19 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Super Duper at 9:15 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:14 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from HateParents at 9:12 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:10 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

What's so bad about him saying no? It's not like he'll throw things at you or something...or will he?
   
  Some of you people obviously haven't experienced much shitty parenting.

  Pardon me, but she hadn't inferred that her father was abusive, so I said "it's not like he'll throw something at her" to show it wouldn't be so bad.


 

 I said he is a very intimidating guy, and he is mean a lot.  

 Seriously, just get out of the topic.


You seem to be able to voice yourself pretty well, or is it just that your anger can only come out through the Internet, and at home you're repressed from fear of your father?

If you're able to scream and bitch at me, you should be able to do it back to your father!


Your a bunch of typed up words, my dad is a real life 6 foot 200 pound man.

I want to ask something from my dad, not yell at him.

And that goes back to me saying I am afraid of rejection. Your overall argument fails.

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Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:19 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Super Duper at 9:18 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:16 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Super Duper at 9:14 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:13 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

I know...no need to shout with caps.

   It's just, I can understand fear of rejection in the asking someone out sense; but fear of being rejected from ordering something online? Can you do it without him knowing it? Get a friend to do it for you and pay them for it?


   

   I AM AFRAID OF REJECTION, NO MATTER WHAT I AM ASKING FOR, THERE IS A POSSIBILITY THAT I WILL GET REJECTED.

  And come the hell on, obviously I don't want something delivered to my house without my parents knowing.    

  Think outside the box.


  Next time DON'T SCREAM AT PEOPLE WHO ARE TRYING TO HELP.

  How is it OBVIOUS you didn't want it sent to your house without your parents knowing? You didn't mention it, so how was it obvious?

  I noticed you didn't address my "ask a friend to order it for you" advice...


 

 Ok, are you really that fucking retarded?  

 It's pretty much common sense that I WANT TO ASK MY DAD AND NOT SECRETLY ORDER SOMETHING ONLINE.  

 No I'm not going to ask a fucking friend to do something stupid like that.  

 


Why is it stupid? If they do it for you, then you'll be getting what you want, AND you won't have to ask your father.

Really, it's a good solution.


Not everyone has friends that will do every little thing for them. And not everyone has a Brady Bunch family.

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if your fear of rejection is that out of control, i think i'd worry more about finding a therapist personally...

and i don't see the problem with asking a friend to get it for you.

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Quote: from Super Duper at 9:21 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:19 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Super Duper at 9:15 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:14 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from HateParents at 9:12 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:10 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

What's so bad about him saying no?  It's not like he'll throw things at you or something...or will he?

   Some of you people obviously haven't experienced much shitty parenting.

   

  Pardon me, but she hadn't inferred that her father was abusive, so I said "it's not like he'll throw something at her" to show it wouldn't be so bad.


  I said he is a very intimidating guy, and he is mean a lot.

  Seriously, just get out of the topic.


 

 You seem to be able to voice yourself pretty well, or is it just that your anger can only come out through the Internet, and at home you're repressed from fear of your father?  

 If you're able to scream and bitch at me, you should be able to do it back to your father!  


Your a bunch of typed up words, my dad is a real life 6 foot 200 pound man.

I want to ask something from my dad, not yell at him.

And that goes back to me saying I am afraid of rejection. Your overall argument fails.


It wasn't an argument, really.  I was just stating that if you're able to voice yourself so easily on here, it's a start to not being intimidated by your father.  A small start, but still.  Wouldn't it be better if you weren't cowering in front of him constantly?

And you want to ask him, okay, then it's a matter of whether you're too scared to ask or whether you'll eventually just do it whenever you feel the time is right.

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Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:24 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Super Duper at 9:21 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:19 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Super Duper at 9:15 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:14 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from HateParents at 9:12 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:10 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

What's so bad about him saying no? It's not like he'll throw things at you or something...or will he?
     
    Some of you people obviously haven't experienced much shitty parenting.

   Pardon me, but she hadn't inferred that her father was abusive, so I said "it's not like he'll throw something at her" to show it wouldn't be so bad.


   

  I said he is a very intimidating guy, and he is mean a lot.    

  Seriously, just get out of the topic.


  You seem to be able to voice yourself pretty well, or is it just that your anger can only come out through the Internet, and at home you're repressed from fear of your father?

  If you're able to scream and bitch at me, you should be able to do it back to your father!


 

 Your a bunch of typed up words, my dad is a real life 6 foot 200 pound man.  

 I want to ask something from my dad, not yell at him.  

 And that goes back to me saying I am afraid of rejection. Your overall argument fails.


It wasn't an argument, really. I was just stating that if you're able to voice yourself so easily on here, it's a start to not being intimidated by your father. A small start, but still. Wouldn't it be better if you weren't cowering in front of him constantly?

And you want to ask him, okay, then it's a matter of whether you're too scared to ask or whether you'll eventually just do it whenever you feel the time is right.


THIS IS THE INTERNET, THIS IS NOT REAL LIFE.

I've known my father for 16 years, I've known you for 16 minutes. That is a HUGE DIFFERENCE.

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Quote: from Super Duper at 9:21 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:19 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Super Duper at 9:18 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:16 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Super Duper at 9:14 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:13 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

I know...no need to shout with caps.      

    It's just, I can understand fear of rejection in the asking someone out sense; but fear of being rejected from ordering something online?  Can you do it without him knowing it?  Get a friend to do it for you and pay them for it?


    I AM AFRAID OF REJECTION, NO MATTER WHAT I AM ASKING FOR, THERE IS A POSSIBILITY THAT I WILL GET REJECTED.      

   And come the hell on, obviously I don't want something delivered to my house without my parents knowing.

   Think outside the box.


   

  Next time DON'T SCREAM AT PEOPLE WHO ARE TRYING TO HELP.    

  How is it OBVIOUS you didn't want it sent to your house without your parents knowing?  You didn't mention it, so how was it obvious?    

  I noticed you didn't address my "ask a friend to order it for you" advice...


  Ok, are you really that fucking retarded?

  It's pretty much common sense that I WANT TO ASK MY DAD AND NOT SECRETLY ORDER SOMETHING ONLINE.

  No I'm not going to ask a fucking friend to do something stupid like that.

 


 

 Why is it stupid?  If they do it for you, then you'll be getting what you want, AND you won't have to ask your father.  

 Really, it's a good solution.


Not everyone has friends that will do every little thing for them. And not everyone has a Brady Bunch family.


You could have said from the start that you didn't have a friend who would do it for you, right when I suggested it.

And I didn't infer that I thought everyone had a "Brady Bunch family", what did I say to make you think otherwise?

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Quote: from Super Duper at 9:25 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:24 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Super Duper at 9:21 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:19 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Super Duper at 9:15 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:14 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from HateParents at 9:12 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:10 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

What's so bad about him saying no?  It's not like he'll throw things at you or something...or will he?

    Some of you people obviously haven't experienced much shitty parenting.

     

    Pardon me, but she hadn't inferred that her father was abusive, so I said "it's not like he'll throw something at her" to show it wouldn't be so bad.


   I said he is a very intimidating guy, and he is mean a lot.

   Seriously, just get out of the topic.


   

  You seem to be able to voice yourself pretty well, or is it just that your anger can only come out through the Internet, and at home you're repressed from fear of your father?    

  If you're able to scream and bitch at me, you should be able to do it back to your father!  


  Your a bunch of typed up words, my dad is a real life 6 foot 200 pound man.

  I want to ask something from my dad, not yell at him.

  And that goes back to me saying I am afraid of rejection. Your overall argument fails.


 

 It wasn't an argument, really.  I was just stating that if you're able to voice yourself so easily on here, it's a start to not being intimidated by your father.  A small start, but still.  Wouldn't it be better if you weren't cowering in front of him constantly?  

 And you want to ask him, okay, then it's a matter of whether you're too scared to ask or whether you'll eventually just do it whenever you feel the time is right.


 THIS IS THE INTERNET, THIS IS NOT REAL LIFE.  

I've known my father for 16 years, I've known you for 16 minutes. That is a HUGE DIFFERENCE.


Very true.  Please calm down, it is, after all, just the Internet. :)

What I said was "it's a small start".  Really, it is!  If you're able to voice yourself on here, you can work your way up!  Unless you think it's impossible, which would mean you're defeated already.

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Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:25 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Super Duper at 9:21 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:19 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Super Duper at 9:18 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:16 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Super Duper at 9:14 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

Quote: from Miss Prophetess at 9:13 pm on Aug. 31, 2008

I know...no need to shout with caps.

    It's just, I can understand fear of rejection in the asking someone out sense; but fear of being rejected from ordering something online? Can you do it without him knowing it? Get a friend to do it for you and pay them for it?


     

    I AM AFRAID OF REJECTION, NO MATTER WHAT I AM ASKING FOR, THERE IS A POSSIBILITY THAT I WILL GET REJECTED.

    And come the hell on, obviously I don't want something delivered to my house without my parents knowing.      

    Think outside the box.


   Next time DON'T SCREAM AT PEOPLE WHO ARE TRYING TO HELP.

   How is it OBVIOUS you didn't want it sent to your house without your parents knowing? You didn't mention it, so how was it obvious?

   I noticed you didn't address my "ask a friend to order it for you" advice...


   

  Ok, are you really that fucking retarded?    

  It's pretty much common sense that I WANT TO ASK MY DAD AND NOT SECRETLY ORDER SOMETHING ONLINE.    

  No I'm not going to ask a fucking friend to do something stupid like that.    

 


  Why is it stupid? If they do it for you, then you'll be getting what you want, AND you won't have to ask your father.

  Really, it's a good solution.


 

 Not everyone has friends that will do every little thing for them. And not everyone has a Brady Bunch family.


You could have said from the start that you didn't have a friend who would do it for you, right when I suggested it.

And I didn't infer that I thought everyone had a "Brady Bunch family", what did I say to make you think otherwise?


Here ya go, genius.

http://www.golivewire.com/forums/peer-yaiiyas-support-yn.html#19

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That just brings me up the page further.

What is your point?

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