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Hmmm... Should I Go???
Replies: 10Last Post Aug. 29, 2008 12:16am by nik1
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( IndieGo )


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My boyfriend invited me to go to his gig tomorrow night. It's in the next town and there's a bunch of other bands playing too.

Issue #1
He's a drummer in a hardcore/punk band, and he'll want to mosh at least part of the time that he isn't playing.
He's the only one I know, and I do NOT want to mosh.
This would make me feel like I'm ruining his fun because I won't know what to do or where to go if he wants to go mosh.

Issue #2:
I don't like the music much, but I love supporting what he loves.

Issue #3:
I have class at 8 A.M. the next morning, but he said he can take me home at nine or ten.

Issue #4:
I've seen him once in the last two weeks. If I don't see him tomorrow night, I don't know when the next time will be.


I can't decide if I should go or not....

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Just go and stand there while he moshes, lol.

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Go, let him mosh for a few minutes and be alone for just as sec. If you really want him to stop, make up some story about a creepy guy trying to make a move. And have him take you home early cuz of your class. It's good that you want to be a supportive gf.

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Ruben


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i can almost guarantee that he wont have you home by that time. and why would u go if u don't want to mosh or like that music?

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be designated driver. 4 his sake

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go

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Quote: from Ruben at 11:46 pm on Aug. 28, 2008

i can almost guarantee that he wont have you home by that time. and why would u go if u don't want to mosh or like that music?

He will have me home, we've done this a few times before (not the exact same situation though).

And as for why I would go

#1: It shows that I support his interests
#2: It makes him really happy that I support his interests
#3: He is soooo hot on stage with his drums.

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I think you should not go. it may seem selfish of you but it's only one gig versus a class that may have somekind of info for the Final later on.

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Ruben


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Quote: from IndieGo at 11:49 pm on Aug. 28, 2008

Quote: from Ruben at 11:46 pm on Aug. 28, 2008

i can almost guarantee that he wont have you home by that time. and why would u go if u don't want to mosh or like that music?

He will have me home, we've done this a few times before (not the exact same situation though).

And as for why I would go

#1: It shows that I support his interests
#2: It makes him really happy that I support his interests
#3: He is soooo hot on stage with his drums.


well i guess go to make him happy.


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I say why not?  Just tell him that you'll step outside (or into the bathroom for a bit) if you get uncomfortable.  Just let him know that you're not interested in the mosh part, and you don't mind if he participates...

And other than that, you can always go and support him, but not be right in the middle of everything :).  So I would say go, if he said he would get you home early :).


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nik1


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I believe in listening to your gut reaction.  It's usually the right one.  Your gut is telling you not to go or you wouldn't be asking the question.

School night!


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