ok today i was walking through the halls of my college when i walked by these two guys who are in marching band with me. they were sitting on a bench. one of the guys stopped me and started talking to me. he asked if i had a class at the moment, and i didn't, so then he asked me to sit down and talk with him. i didn't want to be rude, so i did

then, the guy he was with left us alone, which i did not want at all. he tried to small talk with me and stuff when luckily two of my friends came over and talked with us.

randomly, the guy sees one of his female friends walk through a door and he gets up to talk to her. i could hear what he was saying to her and he said something along the lines of "yea i was thinking of asking amanda out on a date" (by the way, i'm not amanda) and then he stands there flirtily talking to her and asks if he can walk her to class...

he ditched me lol

i asked my friend who had came "is he a big flirt or sumthin?" and his eyes got wide and said "oh yes big time" and he said that he was prolly interested in me and is why he asked me to sit down with him....but he's also interested in a lot of girls

anyway my point is this:

guys....i have a word of advice for you. if you're interested in a girl and want to flirt, dont ask her to go out of her way to hang out with you and then when she does, go off with another girl while TALKING TO that girl about how you're thinking of asking another girl on a date lol. it's kinda rediculous haha

anyway, later that guy came back to me and my friends and continued to flirt with me, even though i was trying to make it obvious that i wasn't interested and was searching for a spot in the convo to mention my fiance lol

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Yea, like the entire teenage guy world is going to listen to you. Umhm.

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Honestly, it sounds like your a LITTLE jealous. Sounds like he knows EXACTLY what he's doing. You weren't interested at all at first. You said you sat down with him "not to be rude." Then when he starts talking about another girl, you post on this website??? Sounds like he made you feel a little insecure, which is what ALL players are able to do. Advice, to dudes, most girls don't give good advice on how to pick up other girls.

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just so you know, livewire is a place where many people post random things about there day all the times. for goodness sakes someone once posted a topic about how they burnt their eggs in the morning. it kinda go to show that lots of people post random thing on this website with no emotional attatchment just cus they're bored or they feel like it

i'm not insecure. if i was, in my topic is would have said "why did he ditch me? what did i do? am i not pretty enough?"

my point in this topic was that guys need to learn more class if they wanna get a lady

and no i was not interested in him. no offense to people who look like this, but he was overweight with short blonde hair and his conversation wasn't very interesting at all. and i dont really like for a guy to be overweight, i dont like short hair and i dont like blonde hair either and if a guy wants to interest me, he needs to come up with interesting conversation topics. and most of all, it's very unattractive for a guy to be such a huge flirt.

ya know one reason why this doesn't make me insecure? because he's one of those guys who goes after any girl who is decent looking or better. so it is not a compliment for him to like you. cus you're just another girl. and i could care less about guys like that. the only kind of guy that can have any kind of effect on me would be a guy who's worth that effect. one whose opinion matters. such as my fiance. i care what he thinks. any other guy is just like whatever to me

haha and why would i get insecure about him when i'm engaged to the most handsome guy: long brown hair, physically fit, elegant face, and above all of that: a great personality, wonderful morals, good charactater, is interesting, and isn't a "playa"

sounds to me like you're trying to defend this guy cus you yourself are like him.....which if that's true, that's pretty sad. maybe you'll learn better someday

as to why i would post a topic such as this: i was in my apartment bored with nothing to do....signed on livewire and felt like posting something....and that was the least uninteresting thing that happened in my day so i figured "hey maybe i'll post a topic telling guy to find better flirting skills and not be rude to the girl they are flirting with"

so yea i kinda laughed when i read your reply. it was pretty silly of you. haha

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If you have a fiance and are not interested, why are you bothered to post about this guy in here?

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