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I really would like to hava kid.
Replies: 9Last Post Aug. 28, 2008 10:20am by swtpie
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I have irrational thoughts about having a kid all the time, I really would love one.

See, I got raped and then I turned up being pregnant, and I ended up loving the baby entirely and I lost it at four months, so that really upset me.

And now when I see a child, I think about how cute they are, and how mine would have looked, and I always get extremely happy and sad at the same time.  Like when I see my sisters baby, she's 9 months old and she is the cutest thing and I baby sit her all the time, but she's just so adorable she makes me sad because I wish that I could've had my baby that was that adorable.

Sorry, I'm just complaining.


8:13 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
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Children are harder then it looks. There's nothing sweet about them beyond infancy.

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awwz; thats sad; i sryz

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plumc0la

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Don't rush into children just for the sake of having them though. And sorry about the rape thing

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aw that suck,i'm sorry.

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Quote: from plumc0la at 11:15 pm on Aug. 27, 2008

Don't rush into children just for the sake of having them though. And sorry about the rape thing

Yes, I wouldn't even consider it because I know I wouldn't be able to raise a child properly because I'm too young and such.


8:17 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
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you have babaayfevaa;
happens to most girls

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I'm sorry for your loss. Although it may seem all nice at first, you still must remember the other things that come with a newborn. You must also think of the baby and yourself, you will have to accept the responsibility and be ready for the hard work that is to come.

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I think your thoughts are more normal than people want to admit. You lost something you loved, and that is always hard to deal with. But you can learn and grow from this. I'm sure you realize that you have the rest of your beautiful life ahead of yours. Being fond of children is great, and no one ever said that you cannot show your love for children on more than just your own child! It's ok to feel close to other children, and kids can always use more friends and playmates.

When you find a partner that can help give you your lovely child it will all be worth it, and you'll see there was never anything to be sad about.

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I feel the exact same way.

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