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20 year old virgin here
Am I totally screwed for my first time?
Replies: 10 — Last Post Aug. 31, 2008 8:22pm by TigressaLynnMae
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I'm a 20 year old virgin. I'm attractive, but shy. Chances are, in the very near future, I will finally have sex. Am I going to completely scare the girl due to my unusual inexperience? Should I tell her the truth beforehand?
6:03 am on Aug. 31, 2008
Dragon22876


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Seen the movie 40 year old virgin? When he tells her, she says its a good thing. Dont worry, your time just hasnt come yet :-)

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no you won't, you can tell her if you want, you will learn, don't worry about it

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I know this hot guy who lost his at 21.

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I don't see this as a particular problem and personally I wouldn't want to be with someone that was overly experienced anyway.

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Don't tell her.

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tell her yes

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If you tell her she's most likely to be biased and expect to have a horrendous time with you just because she'll have the thought in the back of her mind that you are a virgin.  
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There's nothing wrong with being a 20 year old virgin. I was a twenty year old virgin. Well, I was 19 when it started, and 20 when it ended. :P

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Quote: from TigressaLynnMae at 12:09 pm on Aug. 31, 2008
There's nothing wrong with being a 20 year old virgin. I was a twenty year old virgin. Well, I was 19 when it started, and 20 when it ended. :P

And its not like you were totally blank when you did it and just laid there like a deer on headlights or as if you were dead, right?  Many people assume that because a girl/guy is a virgin, their first time will be a complete total disaster but there might be the possibility that they are not that bad on their first time.

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And its not like you were totally blank when you did it and just laid there like a deer on headlights or as if you were dead, right?  Many people assume that because a girl/guy is a virgin, their first time will be a complete total disaster but there might be the possibility that they are not that bad on their first time.

I didn't just lie there, of course. He guided me through the process. Once I got the hang of things, I had a good thing going, for both ofu s.

I wouldn't assume a virgin didn't know what they were doing. I would assume that they knew what to do, but that they would ned help.

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