Talk to him about it, and tell him to choose....you or her.  If you, then the only connection HE should have with her is seeing his baby or paying child support (that is, if she takes the baby).  

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What I have done (cheap) in the past is just go to the grocery store buy a gift bag and tissue paper (all cheap) and buy like the good smelling johnson and johnson baby soap, lotion, powder, and a card.

All of this can be done for like no more than $10-$12 (american).

And if after that she still acts nasty, then she is not a good person.

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Try to make the peace. Give a gift for the baby to the mother and your boyfriend at the same time. Don't tell your boyfriend, so he'll be suprised too.

What I have done (cheap) in the past is just go to the grocery store buy a gift bag and tissue paper (all cheap) and buy like the good smelling johnson and johnson baby soap, lotion, powder, and a card.

All of this can be done for like no more than $10-$12 (american).

And if after that she still acts nasty, then she is not a good person.

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I understand why it would be hard for you, you want a relationship with him. But you also have to understand it from his perspective. I'm assuming that he and the mother are also teenagers. So you have a couple basically scared kids who now have a baby. Believe me, you can't even imagine how chaotic those first few months are. She needs help and the idea of him running away to be with another girl will be terrifying and also enraging to her. His loyalty right now, is to the mother of his child and the child herself, not to his own romantic life. I'm not trying to be harsh, but it just seems like right now he doesn't have time to be in a romantic relationship the way/level that you need and disappointment is going to be inevitable until you accept that and back off for a bit until he's free-er.

When the baby is a little older and the mother has gained more confidence and the 'newborn' phase is over, he might have more time to spend with you.

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Holly.
Mama to Hunter Kai
Still missing you, LML. (1941-2007). ♥
"Nothing is worth more than this day."

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cry. And break up with him.

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