He's REALLY into me, he tells me every day. He thinks we'll be together for a long time. But the truth is, I don't know what I want.

What I think I want is to meet new people in college and enjoy experiences and just focus on the work and indulge myself in the college life.

He's a great guy. And I know this. And there's no valid reason in the relationship [like, nothing too wrong with it] to make me want to break it off...

But the fact is, I just don't want to be in a relationship right now.

How do I tell him that, and is this the right decision.

(he's going into his final year of high school, but we only live about a 5 minute drive away from each other)

Post edited at 12:57 pm on Aug. 30, 2008 by arwen rashka

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I may not agree with what you say,
but I will defend to the death your right to say it.

Hint that you might be able to fool around with him, but no relationship.

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You've only been dating about a week, I don't think he'll be too crushed.

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Tell him that you think he is a cool guy, but thinking practically you just might find someone else and you want to remain available for the start of the school year.

You've only been dating about a week, I don't think he'll be too crushed.

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He's very adamant about staying together for a long time... and tells me that every day. He tells me how much he loves being with me... every day.

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I may not agree with what you say,
but I will defend to the death your right to say it.

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He's very adamant about staying together for a long time... and tells me that every day. He tells me how much he loves being with me... every day.

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Then maybe it will hit him a little harder.

But seriously, after a week I can't see how emotionally invested you can become in a person.

Post edited at 1:09 pm on Aug. 30, 2008 by Micus

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Educators destroy your brain,
but you don't know, so why care?
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