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I am in love with my girlfriend...but....my ex...
Replies: 10Last Post Aug. 30, 2008 10:34pm by SweetAndi
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I have the most amazing girlfriend. I've been with her for two years. I am in love with her. Totally and completely. I want to spend the rest of my life with her. I want to grow old with her. She is my everything.

But...my ex. We were kinda on and off for a LONG time. And well....i loved her. I dont think she knows I loved her. In fact, half the time, i hide it from myself. We both want eachother, but life went on. We never tried ahrd enough. Then my girlfriend came, and she got a girlfriend..and just....theres still some feelings there.
We wont hang out with eachother, wont even look at eachother or be in the same area because the feelings are so strong.
I dont know what to do. Im so lost.


10:41 pm on Aug. 29, 2008
Coloring The Void


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you already know what to do, you 'loved' your ex, but you 'love' your g/f. keep it like that.

*usage in present and past-tenths.


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suhploda


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dude i no what u mean. i messed up with my ex and even though we had feelings for each other she ended having casual sex with some guy and got pregnant.

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Heart92


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Quote: from Coloring The Void at 1:42 am on Aug. 30, 2008

you already know what to do, you 'loved' your ex, but you 'love' your g/f. keep it like that.  

*usage in present and past-tenths.


I agree.

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jasnIZbad

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fuck them both

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Casia


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you can't love two people at once but my answer is the same as the person above me

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get out of my happy place, or i'll rip your arm off

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Boondox


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stay with the one u love

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Quote: from Coloring The Void at 10:42 pm on Aug. 29, 2008

you already know what to do, you 'loved' your ex, but you 'love' your g/f. keep it like that.  

*usage in present and past-tenths.


tenths?

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nik1


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You need to lay back and sort things out.  You can't go on in a relationship when you still have strong feelings for another.  Your post is not that all unusual and they always begin with, "I am in love with her and want to spend my life with my current girlfriend......but, I still have feelings for my ex."


If you felt this strongly about your current gf you wouldn't give a hoot about your ex.  Its a security blanket for you or she will do if I can't have my ex.

I would suggest that you take a break with your current and tell your ex exactly how you feel.  This is the only honorable thing to do and if it works out you will still be capable of looking yourself in the mirror.  

Dishonesty in a relationship is a formula for total failure.


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mina me


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who are your feelings strongest for?
compare your relationship with your ex to the one with yoru girlfriend.

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SweetAndi


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u can't be in love with your current gf and in love with your ex.  you're just lusting after one or both of them

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