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I don't think that's weird at all. Highschool relationships may not last forever, but they can last a really long time. Good for you! I'm glad you have something special.
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they buy and they sell and they sell all their trash to each other
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ic, yeah idk if its gonna last very long. i doubt it, sorry.
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LEONIDOS
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love wins out in the end
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GIVE THEM NOTHING BUT TAKE FROM THEM EVERYTHING
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Atti
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Go for it.
Jading yourself with multiple failed relationships is a hell of a lot worse than a failed marriage or committed one.
It might last - it might not. But there's really no logic in refusing to move on in a relationship just because you aren't experienced, when what could really make you happy in the long run is what you already have.
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Rid yourself of doubt... Or should you?
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MakingaDifference001
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I had a friend with the exact same situation. He moved in with her senior year. They lasted 2 months after that. Good luck.
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Micus
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Quote: from Atti at 9:58 pm on Aug. 29, 2008
 Go for it.
Jading yourself with multiple failed relationships is a hell of a lot worse than a failed marriage or committed one.
It might last - it might not. But there's really no logic in refusing to move on in a relationship just because you aren't experienced, when what could really make you happy in the long run is what you already have. 
When you are dating someone who is in tenth grade, you are dating that tenth grader. Sure, you can grow up together, but over time I feel like the two of them are going to grow apart so differently that the relationship is going to break. My best friends parents just got divorced after a lifetime of resentment, arguing and passive aggressive tendencies, just because they married their high school sweetheart and would rather love the one they were with instead of calling it quits and moving on.
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Educators destroy your brain,
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shadowofchar
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Loads of kids feel attached to their boyfriends/girlfriends, but it usually wears off after time. I know nothing about how solid your relationship is, but keep in mind that even solid relationships can fall apart if they're built on a foundation of lust or infatuation instead of love (and it can be difficult to distinguish infatuation from love; i know from experience). In most cases these relationships don't last, and more than half of them contain two people who, at one point, felt like they'd be together 'always and forever.' Then again, I do know of one case that was a success. My cousin started going out with a girl in eighth grade, and now they're both 27 years old, married, and living together happily. So who knows... my only advice is to keep focusing on your own life and don't make any sacrifices for him yet because it just might fall apart someday, but don't neglect him either, because it just might work out.
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XXeasysuicideXX
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i understand that completly me and my bf are just like that u may stay together as long as u work at it ne thing is possible
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Atti
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Quote: from Micus at 3:02 am on Aug. 30, 2008
Quote: from Atti at 9:58 pm on Aug. 29, 2008
Go for it.
Jading yourself with multiple failed relationships is a hell of a lot worse than a failed marriage or committed one.
It might last - it might not. But there's really no logic in refusing to move on in a relationship just because you aren't experienced, when what could really make you happy in the long run is what you already have.
When you are dating someone who is in tenth grade, you are dating that tenth grader. Sure, you can grow up together, but over time I feel like the two of them are going to grow apart so differently that the relationship is going to break. My best friends parents just got divorced after a lifetime of resentment, arguing and passive aggressive tendencies, just because they married their high school sweetheart and would rather love the one they were with instead of calling it quits and moving on.
My parents got married (well, common law, at least) in their thirties and grew apart and hated each other. Age certainly MIGHT change people, but so does many other things. And change isn't always bad - my boyfriend has been my best friend since we were 10. We lived in the same small dormitory for 7 years before dating, and we've both changed dramatically many times over the years, and it only drove us closer. Some people grow apart, some get closer, some stay the same. It's a chance worth taking if it means happiness.
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