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If you HAVE HAD an abortion before
Replies: 20Last Post Aug. 30, 2008 4:34pm by BeautifulLies82
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Do you regret it? Or have any feelings of missing the baby?

Did you become depressed or having any feeling like your missing something but you dont know what?

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iceman89


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I never let my g/f or wife do that. Its kind of murder

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boom spencer boom


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Most people who have an abortion have a very good reason.

So it depends on the person.


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I have a friend who had one.
She was find afterward. But most of the time that isn't the case.

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PatPut99


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Quote: from iceman89 at 2:22 pm on Aug. 26, 2008

I never let my g/f or wife do that. Its kind of murder

You can't force her to do, or not to do anything bud.  

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I occasionally look back and wonder what my life would be like right now if I had kept it.

Other than that, no.  I did it because I could not physically and mentally have a child at that point in my life.  I knew that there was no way I could do it safely.  I know that I protected the child by doing it.


11:25 am on Aug. 26, 2008
Sins and Demons


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Not a girl but my gf got one, only thing i missed was the $500 it cost.

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Quote: from iceman89 at 11:22 am on Aug. 26, 2008

I never let my g/f or wife do that. Its kind of murder

too bad its not up to you.

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It's your own choice.

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paganinio


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since I'm way too smart to impregnate a hot girl that I don't want to impregnate, the real question is do I allow/encourage my daughter to have an abortion

answer is yes, and I won't feel sorry for my grandchild.
I'm a kind grandpa, haha


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BeautifulLies82


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Quote: from PatPut99 at 11:23 am on Aug. 26, 2008

Quote: from iceman89 at 2:22 pm on Aug. 26, 2008

I never let my g/f or wife do that. Its kind of murder

You can't force her to do, or not to do anything bud.  

If it's his kid...


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ilovethatbiotch


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i had one. i was 14, the guy was 18. i was in no state mentally, physically, emotionally, or financially to have a kid. its been 3 and half months now. i still don't know if i made the right choice. i miss the little girl (i think it was a girl, i just felt as if i knew) i killed. i knew it was what i had to do, but yes i do regret it, yes i have feeling for my dead child, i am depressed (my boyfriend wants me to get help), and those empty feelings i know are because of it.

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I HAD ONE AND I TRIED TO KILL MYSELF CAUSE I FELT LIKE IF DID IT AND IT HAD TO DIE THEN I SHOULD HAVE DIED TOO

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i have not had an abortion, but my life is different because of one. i found this site looking for advice on coping with family members and abortion. i am 25 years old and have been married to my husband for 3 years. my husband and i have an amazing relationship, and i know that he is the person that i am to spend the rest of my life with. my husband got his high school girlfriend pregnant and she had an abortion. he was 16 and she was 18 and about to go to college. i have never had much of an opinion about abortion before because it has never affected me or my life. my husband and i are now discussing having children, and every time i think about telling my husband that i am pregnant, what should be the happiest moment of both of our lives, i know that we will both be thinking about the child that was aborted 14 years ago. i will not be the first woman to see the look on his face when he hears that he's going to be a father. my doctor has told me recently that due to a severe possibility of cervical cancer, i may have reproductive complications, and i have already experienced one miscarriage.. i can't imagine how we will cope with not being able to have children, but i especially can't imagine doing so while knowing that my husband drove his pregnant girlfriend to the clinic so that she could throw their baby away. this is not a decision to take lightly, and you have no idea how it will affect your life in 2, 10, or even 14 years. this is what i wish i could tell my husband's high school girlfriend, and i can't. i'm sorry if this opinion is unwanted here, but if it makes anyone consider this decision more carefully then it is worth writing.

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I've had two abortions and there was and still is a lot of emotional pain. The boyfriend wasn't even supportive with the abortions. He never asked how I was feeling or anything like that. but I'm happy i'm not with him anymore, he was a year older than me and couldn't/wouldn't take responsibility of a kid.

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