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Is she lying about getting raped?
Replies: 14Last Post Aug. 26, 2008 11:45am by daveythewavey19
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This girl that I'm dating told me twice that she was raped at the age of 12. But it's the way she said it that had me not believing her. She said:
"The guy raped me when I was 12. He beat the sh*t out of me."

She said it so freely you know? I feel like she's just doing this for attention. When I responded with, "Who was it? I'll choke him," she actually smiled and giggled and said "are you okay?"

I feel like shes just trying to see if I'm protective of her or not? For some reason, I'm not believing the rape story.


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Hard to tell with stuff like that. Trust your instinct

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I don't.

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She's a liar

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might be

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If she talks about it like that- she is lying.
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it could be either way... I'm fine with telling ppl that I was molested... some ppl can just get over things and laugh about it later... its a twisted world...

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Peaople who lie about that shit are sick fucks tbh.

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this is going to sound bad! ut get her drunk and ask her! because 95% of people tell the truth when drunk!

or just sit her down and aske her to look you in the eye and for her to tell you the truth if she looks left she is lying! it has been proven! :) hope that helped

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Based off of that, I would say you can't judge.  Things that are truly hard for people sometimes make them respond in strange ways.  You would expect someone to possibly break down crying, but instead, they take on a completely different personality.  If anything, she could be honestly telling the truth, and just trying to alleviate the tension.

Because... if she gives in to the emotion, then it becomes more "real', in my opinion.  If she admits that it bothers her, then it hurts so much more... and she may also be worried about your reaction... and maybe wants to avoid a large session on discussing the matter...

I mean, it could be anything.  I wouldn't immediately pass it off as lying... because again, many people take on a different reaction to certain things.  My boyfriend was telling me about how his dad was beating him, and he was laughing about the story.  My sister and I were talking about our mom, and how I never stuck around to get hit by a hanger to know if she was serious.  And then she said, "oh, I've been hit" and then we laughed about it.  Laughing and jokes are one way people relieve the tension on touchy situations...


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no she could be. i was and that is how i act, holdin it in hurts more then telling ppl.. I dont think that any girl would lie about that happing..!
when you say something like that after wat she told u, its makes her feel good that you care and that is y she did the u ok thing

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it could be both... I had no problem telling people i got molested back when i was 11 and 17...

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People deal with different situations differently from others. She could be lying she could be saying the truth.

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maybe shes dealt wuth it and doesn't feel the need to get upset over it anymore.

but at the end of the day why would she lie about something like to you because she would know you wan to hurt them.

trust your instinctss and keep asking her questions and she might mess up by tell ing you something different

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She's probably lying. I went out with a girl who said she was 'raped' but in reality, she invited a 30 year old man over to her house to have sex, then she regreted it and claimed he raped her.

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