focus on being a lax RA and you'll have a much better experience being one. 
Don't listen to this one. Focus on being a GOOD RA. Follow your contract, and do what you're expected, and you'll do fine.
Residents will make ur life hell if u act crazy strict. 
Sure, if you're baby sitting two year olds. But this is college. College students, in Housing, have a Contract to follow, just as much as the RA's. They expect the rules to be followed, just as much as the RA's.
Most RAs only bust people when they have to 
Or when the contract calls for it. They're expected to follow the rules, just as much as the residents. You cannot, as an RA, nor a Resident, pick and choose the parts of a contract to follow. It's all or none.
say their position is at stake, but other than that they just want the free housing

If they're in it for the freebies, they're not in it for the right reasons. That's like taking a Dentist's job because of the pay. Do it because you enjoy it, not because of the payoff.
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