He had been talking to his bitch of a sister about looking for a bachelor or moving home. It broke my heart. I didn't tell him I knew his intentions.

Well, we thought we might be pregnant. And I was worried that he was waiting to know if I was or not. So, I decided to go get one. I told him I was going to the store to buy gravel. He decided to come and we'd go grocery shopping. I picked up the PT, without him knowing, and told him I couldn't find what I was looking for.

In the grocery store, I broke down crying like 4 times. It broke my heart. 5 years is a lot to throw away. Plus, he is all I know.

So, when we got home he put a movie on, and I just paused it and said, "What happened with us." He shrugged his shoulders. I leaned in and kissed him and he didn't respond, which hurt even more. So, I was telling him why certain things he does hurts, but I'd try to stop worrying, and so on. So after an hour I asked him, "Do you think we can give it another month, and then decided what to do." and he agreed.

After the movie we went outside and it got less awkward to talk normal again. We became perfect by the time we came in. I told him I bought the PT.

Then he basically told me to sit on the bed, and we talked, and I could see he wanted sex. He told me straight he missed it. We use to have it almost on a daily bases. It's been like 2 weeks.

I told him I was worried he had already made up his mind to leave, and I didn't want to have sex if it was already decided. But he was very, "I love you." "Everything is okay now", and we cuddled for an hour, and then had sex.

The way he looked at me and spoke, I don't think he used me. I can tell he loves me. But that text message is still fresh in my head. So, I don't know.

I did the PT and it was negative and he didn't act any different to me. Plus, when we had sex, it was unprotected again, like he didn't mind having a child with me.

And if he had already made up his mind to leave you, and then he had break up sex, well, I think he used you.

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Well, we thought we might be pregnant. And I was worried that he was waiting to know if I was or not. So, I decided to go get one. I told him I was going to the store to buy gravel. He decided to come and we'd go grocery shopping. I picked up the PT, without him knowing, and told him I couldn't find what I was looking for.

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 Well, we thought we might be pregnant. And I was worried that he was waiting to know if I was or not. So, I decided to go get one. I told him I was going to the store to buy gravel. He decided to come and we'd go grocery shopping. I picked up the PT, without him knowing, and told him I couldn't find what I was looking for.  

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Woah, woah, woah, woah, woah. WAIT. What do you mean by we?!

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My boyfriend and I. Whats the big problem?

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Okay, one, when a guy has unprotected sex, it has nothing to do with whether or not he wants children with you, okay?

And if he had already made up his mind to leave you, and then he had break up sex, well, I think he used you.

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QFT.

It looks like he just wanted sex and so would do anything get it. Seems like a jerk to me. You should've stuck by your first impression and not have had sex with him.

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  Well, we thought we might be pregnant. And I was worried that he was waiting to know if I was or not. So, I decided to go get one. I told him I was going to the store to buy gravel. He decided to come and we'd go grocery shopping. I picked up the PT, without him knowing, and told him I couldn't find what I was looking for.  
 

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 Woah, woah, woah, woah, woah. WAIT. What do you mean by we?!

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My boyfriend and I. Whats the big problem?

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Well, we thought we might be pregnant. And I was worried that he was waiting to know if I was or not. So, I decided to go get one. I told him I was going to the store to buy gravel. He decided to come and we'd go grocery shopping. I picked up the PT, without him knowing, and told him I couldn't find what I was looking for.    

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Woah, woah, woah, woah, woah. WAIT. What do you mean by we?!

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My boyfriend and I. Whats the big problem?

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Because he isn't gonna go through the morning sickness, the cramps, the heartburn, the sleepless nights, the mood swings, the swollen ankles and feet, stretching of your belly, your sore breasts, the contractions, the pain of the actual birth, the post partum depression, the doctor visits...

He's not gonna feel any of that.

Post edited at 8:09 am on July 31, 2008 by iBritt

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Quote: from Anonymous at 11:04 am on July 31, 2008

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Quote: from paperskyx at 8:03 am on July 31, 2008

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  Well, we thought we might be pregnant. And I was worried that he was waiting to know if I was or not. So, I decided to go get one. I told him I was going to the store to buy gravel. He decided to come and we'd go grocery shopping. I picked up the PT, without him knowing, and told him I couldn't find what I was looking for.    
 

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 Woah, woah, woah, woah, woah. WAIT. What do you mean by we?!

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My boyfriend and I. Whats the big problem?

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Because he isn't gonna go through the morning sickness, the cramps, the heartburn, the sleepless nights, the mood swings, the swollen ankles and feet, stretching of your belly, your sore breasts, the contractions, the pain of the actual birth, the post partum depression, the doctor visits...

He's not gonna feel any of that.

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It sounds like he loves you, but doesn't want to fully commit.

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just annoy those of us that actually do know everything.

I don't get the people who state with such certainty that "aw hun, he loves you!" He loves her so much he's planning with his sister on how to either move out or boot her to the curb for a new roommate. Yeah, sounds to me like "aw hun, he loves you."

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Okay, one, when a guy has unprotected sex, it has nothing to do with whether or not he wants children with you, okay?

And if he had already made up his mind to leave you, and then he had break up sex, well, I think he used you.

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Trust me, my boyfriend would NEVER have unprotective sex without actually wanting a child. I've known him for a long time. He isn't that stupid. He would put a condom before coming near me when we were younger, and then this year we talked about having a child, and so we stopped using protection.

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  Well, we thought we might be pregnant. And I was worried that he was waiting to know if I was or not. So, I decided to go get one. I told him I was going to the store to buy gravel. He decided to come and we'd go grocery shopping. I picked up the PT, without him knowing, and told him I couldn't find what I was looking for.
 

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 Woah, woah, woah, woah, woah. WAIT. What do you mean by we?!

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My boyfriend and I. Whats the big problem?

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Because he isn't gonna go through the morning sickness, the cramps, the heartburn, the sleepless nights, the mood swings, the swollen ankles and feet, stretching of your belly, your sore breasts, the contractions, the pain of the actual birth, the post partum depression, the doctor visits...

He's not gonna feel any of that.

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   Well, we thought we might be pregnant. And I was worried that he was waiting to know if I was or not. So, I decided to go get one. I told him I was going to the store to buy gravel. He decided to come and we'd go grocery shopping. I picked up the PT, without him knowing, and told him I couldn't find what I was looking for.    
 

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  Woah, woah, woah, woah, woah. WAIT. What do you mean by we?!

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 My boyfriend and I. Whats the big problem?

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Try Sex Ed class. If you're a girl, then YOU get pregnant, not him. So "we" wasn't exactly the right word...

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Holy Shit. What is wrong with you two. You guys really like bashing a person don't you.

And yes, it is WE. We are a team. If I am pregnant, then half of it is him, and half of it is me, meaning WE.

He might not experience the same things, but he'd be there for me. Helping me.

Please you two, stop trying to get me upset, stop trying to be smart asses.

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You sound pretty naive in so many ways. The fact that he has sex with you only means that he wanted to have sex. You are probably too desperate and reading too much into it. You hint that the problems in the relationship are not something new, so one little bit of break up sex isn't going to change much of anything.

I don't get the people who state with such certainty that "aw hun, he loves you!" He loves her so much he's planning with his sister on how to either move out or boot her to the curb for a new roommate. Yeah, sounds to me like "aw hun, he loves you."

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Just because we had sex doesn't mean I'm saying he loves me. We talked! You know, thats what people do to communicate. We worked it out. I've known him for years, I know how he acts. Plus, he would NEVER use someone for sex. He is better then that!