As you guys may know, I'm very, very shy. Probably shyer than most eighteen year olds out there. Cause of that I find I'm often alone a lot. It's been this way for a long, long time and I kinda don't want to be anymore, so I've been trying to like for the past two years really to improve, and I have. I have a good deal of friends but I'm a tad uncomfortable inviting a lot of them to go do stuff. Anyway, though, I'm kinda getting frustrated that I haven't had much if any experience with girls, and I'm turning nineteen in September and I think it's just kinda sad I haven't met anyone that I've really liked. This past semester I even went to meetings of a club where I thought I'd meet some girls with similar interests to my own and I still didn't find anyone.
One of my friends said a great place to meet girls of similar interests are at concerts (any type) since you'll obviously share music tastes. I just don't know how that would work with me. So I dunno, I guess the point was to ask if you guys knew how I could go about meeting people without having to go into the party scene? I don't drink or dance and am rather uncomfortable at parties that have either...so I don't think that's the ideal social outlet for me.
Sorry for being long winded, I feel like I have to explain myself a lot...=/ I hope it's not too much...
Post edited at 10:40 am on July 19, 2008 by metrico