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( 92perpetual )
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But here's my situation: (it's a bit long) There's this guy I've liked, for a while. He works in a clothing store at the mall. A couple months back, I got his number through a friend and I texted him (I'd never talked to him face to face, I was too scared. Which probably wasn't a great start.) Anyway, I texted him for a bit but I think he was kinda weirded out since he didn't know who in the hell I was, so when he stopped texting me I didn't pursue it. Today, for the first time since, I went back to the store with my friend. I thought he wasn't working there anymore, but he was. I got a coffee and sat outside the store with my friend, and when he looked in my direction my paranoia kicked in and I was certain he knew who I was. I wasn't going to go in the store, but my friend needed to try on jeans so eventually I worked up the courage. We walked in, and he goes "Hey girls." I go "hey" and then walk quickly on, quietly freaking out because now my paranoia is telling me that he DEFINATELY KNOWS. He's so freaking gorgeous and I feel like such an idiot. I still have his number on my phone, so I could still text him if I wanted to (which I kinda do.) But if I do I'll probably have to tell him that he said hi to me, and then he'll recognize me as the girl who sat outside the store, and then he'll think I'm even more of a stalker. Should I risk it? And what should I say? Also any guys (if you've managed to read all my rambling up until now), would you be weirded out by a girl kinda stalking you?
------- Those who are dead are not dead They're just living in my head.
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blufindr
Soothsayer
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Uhm. Talk in real life?
------- [ℓiחŋie]&[вeиηy] In my world, everybody's a pony, and they all eat rainbows and poop butterflies!
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LaMotta
Soothsayer
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That ain't stalking love!! It's grand, he won't care that you were hanging out with your mate!! Ha text him
------- Mila Kunis, will you marry me?! I am Sligo's protecter!! Rennies for my flatulence.
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MyCuteFiend
Connoisseur
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That's really freaky. You've fucked it up by texting him when he didn't know you. Forget about it.
------- You are the wildest one But you're the one that I want I'm making eyes at you That's all I ever do
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WonderChick16
Advisor
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That is a bit stalkerish, i mean you had never even said a word to the guy when you texted him. You really should hang out with him in person, ask him for coffee or something while he's on break.
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Jadien
Wealthy Hobo
Sustainer
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Those are not stalker qualities at all. If your friend knows him, why not have your friend and him hang out, and then have them hang with you? You can be introduced face to face, and then texting wouldn't be abnormal.
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4:09 am on July 19, 2008 | Joined June 2008 | 101 Days Active Join to learn more about Jadien Michigan, United States | Straight Female | 3434 Posts | 5259 Points
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nik1
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Go back by yourself and buy some jeans from him. If he's interested he will show it. If he's not, you will know it.
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5:23 am on July 19, 2008 | Joined July 2007 | 348 Days Active Join to learn more about nik1 North Carolina, United States | Straight Male | 5938 Posts | 9662 Points
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