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I feel like a silly little girl...
Replies: 12Last Post July 19 9:54pm by Hoop Jargon
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But here's my situation: (it's a bit long)

There's this guy I've liked, for a while. He works in a clothing store at the mall. A couple months back, I got his number through a friend and I texted him (I'd never talked to him face to face, I was too scared. Which probably wasn't a great start.) Anyway, I texted him for a bit but I think he was kinda weirded out since he didn't know who in the hell I was, so when he stopped texting me I didn't pursue it.

Today, for the first time since, I went back to the store with my friend. I thought he wasn't working there anymore, but he was. I got a coffee and sat outside the store with my friend, and when he looked in my direction my paranoia kicked in and I was certain he knew who I was. I wasn't going to go in the store, but my friend needed to try on jeans so eventually I worked up the courage. We walked in, and he goes "Hey girls." I go "hey" and then walk quickly on, quietly freaking out because now my paranoia is telling me that he DEFINATELY KNOWS. He's so freaking gorgeous and I feel like such an idiot.

I still have his number on my phone, so I could still text him if I wanted to (which I kinda do.) But if I do I'll probably have to tell him that he said hi to me, and then he'll recognize me as the girl who sat outside the store, and then he'll think I'm even more of a stalker. Should I risk it? And what should I say?

Also any guys (if you've managed to read all my rambling up until now), would you be weirded out by a girl kinda stalking you?

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blufindr


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Uhm. Talk in real life?

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That ain't stalking love!!
It's grand, he won't care that you were hanging out with your mate!!
Ha text him

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That's really freaky. You've fucked it up by texting him when he didn't know you. Forget about it.

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Quote: from blufindr at 10:29 pm on July 19, 2008

Uhm. Talk in real life?

I'm TERRIFIED. I just know I'd glow bright red and say something totally stupid.
But at the same time, I know it's the right thing to do. When I texted him, he said I should have pretended to need help. So maybe I'll work up the nerve for that next time...

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Quote: from 92perpetual at 8:32 pm on July 19, 2008

I'm TERRIFIED. I just know I'd glow bright red and say something totally stupid.
But at the same time, I know it's the right thing to do. When I texted him, he said I should have pretended to need help. So maybe I'll work up the nerve for that next time...

Do eet. Stalkerish behaviour = killed chances.

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Quote: from LaMotta at 10:30 pm on July 19, 2008

That ain't stalking love!!
It's grand, he won't care that you were hanging out with your mate!!
Ha text him

=) I'm thinking I might, casually 'accidently' text him. But eh. Who knows. He seems like a really cool guy.

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Quote: from MyCuteFiend at 10:30 pm on July 19, 2008

That's really freaky. You've fucked it up by texting him when he didn't know you. Forget about it.

Thanks for the vote of confidence haha.
I've tried forgetting. I suppose I could keep trying though.

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That is a bit stalkerish, i mean you had never even said a word to the guy when you texted him. You really should hang out with him in person, ask him for coffee or something while he's on break.

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Quote: from MyCuteFiend at 3:30 am on July 19, 2008

That's really freaky. You've fucked it up by texting him when he didn't know you. Forget about it.

lol.  You really know guys, don't you?


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Jadien


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Those are not stalker qualities at all. If your friend knows him, why not have your friend and him hang out, and then have them hang with you? You can be introduced face to face, and then texting wouldn't be abnormal.

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Go back by yourself and buy some jeans from him.  If he's interested he will show it.  If he's not, you will know it.

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Hoop Jargon


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Chat him up... that is the way to go. Guys like that. You won't know if he likes you if he does a transaction for you, you need to talk to him.

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