Distance: 30 miles from each other..
Hung out: 2 times so far.. yea I know.

2 years ago:
We get along.. nothing major just good friends.

1 1/2 years ago: We are already talking everyday and she is so happy she knows me and blah blah but she is in love with some other guy.. but at this point I didn't like her yet.

1 year to 6 months ago: She LOVES me.. and for a long time we are just talking and on Dec. 29th I ask her out.. On the 31st she had her cousin call and tell me that she cheated on me and last her "vagina" virginity.. but she has already blown some guys.. but w/e

On Jan. 5th.. we hung out for the first time, it was okay. She later told me that night that she wanted me to kiss her and was a little pissed that I didn't. Then 2 days later I found out she had Mono from the guy she had sex with.. He is 18 and she was 14. Shit I KNOW!

Current:
But since that day it's been like a car running out of gas.. we argue more and more.. we had about 3 breaks now.. 2 weeks the first time, 1 month the second time, and now it has started for the 3rd time. She starts it all over again by calling me "accidentally" she says, or she msgs me on myspace and I fall for it everytime and respond or call back hoping for an apology.

She is just pain. Oh and BTW, since Dec. 31 she has had sex.. 15 times with like 6-7 guys. Supposedly all with a condom and everytime she tells me I get more and more ticked off.

But she is obsessed with me and was offering sexual favors just so I talk with her. I get hurt a lot here and keep coming back to her and I want to stop because I am sick of it and want to stop it. I told her that this is the last time.. but that's also what I said the other 2 times, and what happened.. you know. But I'm SURE this time ain't no coming back.. I just want to find a girl that isn't a buncha bull.

What would you guys do in my position??

Thanks

But then when she tells me the stuff she does, it brings back old memories and that's when I get hurt on the inside.

and her headline on Myspace is.. "he doesn't even know :(" lol.
man oh man.

Thanks you guys. I will pull through this and finally get a girl that is right for me.. the only girl I ever had that was right for me.. moved away. :(

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yea she is using me. Although for just talking making her feel better about herself because supposedly I listen to her.. Lol.

and her headline on Myspace is.. "he doesn't even know :(" lol.
man oh man.

Thanks you guys. I will pull through this and finally get a girl that is right for me.. the only girl I ever had that was right for me.. moved away. :(

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u deserve someone way better!

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Okay. I'll do it cliff note style..

Distance: 30 miles from each other..
Hung out: 2 times so far.. yea I know.

2 years ago:
We get along.. nothing major just good friends.

1 1/2 years ago: We are already talking everyday and she is so happy she knows me and blah blah but she is in love with some other guy.. but at this point I didn't like her yet.

1 year to 6 months ago: She LOVES me.. and for a long time we are just talking and on Dec. 29th I ask her out.. On the 31st she had her cousin call and tell me that she cheated on me and last her "vagina" virginity.. but she has already blown some guys.. but w/e

On Jan. 5th.. we hung out for the first time, it was okay. She later told me that night that she wanted me to kiss her and was a little pissed that I didn't. Then 2 days later I found out she had Mono from the guy she had sex with.. He is 18 and she was 14. Shit I KNOW!

Current:
But since that day it's been like a car running out of gas.. we argue more and more.. we had about 3 breaks now.. 2 weeks the first time, 1 month the second time, and now it has started for the 3rd time. She starts it all over again by calling me "accidentally" she says, or she msgs me on myspace and I fall for it everytime and respond or call back hoping for an apology.

She is just pain. Oh and BTW, since Dec. 31 she has had sex.. 15 times with like 6-7 guys. Supposedly all with a condom and everytime she tells me I get more and more ticked off.

But she is obsessed with me and was offering sexual favors just so I talk with her. I get hurt a lot here and keep coming back to her and I want to stop because I am sick of it and want to stop it. I told her that this is the last time.. but that's also what I said the other 2 times, and what happened.. you know. But I'm SURE this time ain't no coming back.. I just want to find a girl that isn't a buncha bull.

What would you guys do in my position??

Thanks

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You remind me of my good friend Alex. He has a "girl" just like this. Luckily for you, she doesn't live too close.

Honestly, if she offers you sexual favors, say you'd rather not have an apple after everyone's already had a bite.

Tell her that her sexual promiscuity turns you off, and you're not interested anyone. She is feeding off comfort from you, like you're an electricity outlet, and she's a generator. She is sucking all your power from you, and making you come back to her every time. She is using you for comfort, and is "paying" you back with sexual pleasures.

I'd say cut her off - Most girls wouldn't want a guy that's been involved with a slutty girl, so cut it off ASAP.

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