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I cheated on my BF...Help Please...
Replies: 43 — Last Post July 28 1:59pm by TigressaLynnMae
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Ok so I have a BF...anyway I like this other guy and I've been seeing him for a while as a friend...anyway we were chillin at his house cuz we always do and nothing ever happens....well we were talking and I told him sorry for not being able to be with him as more then a friend...he looked at me( we are sitting on the floor) he grabbed the back of my head and pulled me to him and just started kissing me..I lost complete control and kept kiising him back...anyway I climbed on top of him while he was sitting up on the floor and we kept kissing..and he had his hands on my butt...He starts to open up the buttons on my shirt and takes my shirt off...(Mind u we are both totally drunk)...anyway he takes my shirt off and starts to kiss my body or whatever and u know what happens next anyway we had sex(Unprotected sex) we were drunk and I woke up in the moring naked in his bed...I looked at him and knew from then my life as I knew it was over...I live with my boyfriend and I obviously didn't come home....of course he didn't know cuz he was at his cousins house for the day...thank heavens...anyway I look at the guy he wakes up and hes like oh shit,.,,,,he looks ta me cuz I start to cry and hes likes listen its not ur fault...baby calm down no one will ever find out what happened....I look at him and hes holding me and I relaize OMG I'm still naked and hes hugging me....I was like I have to go...hes like I know..baby it wasn't likw I didnt love u...I looked at him and I start to cry again and gte dressed and I leave...when I came out the room his mother (who I am really close to) is up and she looks at my face...shes like r u ok? I was like yeah everythings ok...and then i break down into her arms...we talk and of course as his mother she kinda gave me that look like WOW u had sex with my son...anyway she tells me evrything will be ok just to go home and get some rest...I looked at my BF and I felt like crying again...but I held myself..I don't know what t do...should I tell him...or not ....like what should I do...? I'm scared and shaken and completely confused....please help.....thank you in advance...
10:38 pm on July 23, 2008
iinsurgent


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It's not fair to your boyfriend. Tell him and deal.
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CaliKevin


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You cheated.  You're fucked.

You might as well just tell him the next time you see him.  It'll come out sooner or later anyways.

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Run away, and never return.

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chaosdisown


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at least tell him... he deserves to know that your a slut...

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Bi Kris


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If you really love your bf, you'll be honest with him.  Make sure to tell him that you were drunk and so was your friend and hope he loves you enough to get past it.

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Roxilynn


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Definately tell him. B/c if he finds out from someone other than you, you're in big trouble. ... and I'd avoid the guy you slept with, just for safe measure. .. and I'd also never get that drunk again.

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xcutioners


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You got the guts to have unprotected sex.

Stop being such a PANSY and admit your wrong doing.

Then never come back to your boyfriend again cause you DON'T DESERVE ONE.

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screw you that hurts

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Aratal


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Drinking with someone who you are attracted to, even just a little bit, is never a good thing if you're in a relationship with someone else.

You need to at least be honest with your boyfriend. He may not want to be with you anymore, but you need to do this. You can't hide from this forever and it's not fair to him either.

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kmksrhdgaf420


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if you tell him sooner, he might understand.
cuz if you don't it'll grow into a larger lie.
just swallow your pride, and tell him

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tell him or the guilt will eat you alive
shouldn't have cheated

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Tell him and say that it wasn't really your fault, your really sorry and you love him?(Your bf not the other guy)

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You need to tell him what happened.

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Quote: from xcutioners at 10:41 pm on July 23, 2008
You got the guts to have unprotected sex.

Stop being such a PANSY and admit your wrong doing.

Then never come back to your boyfriend again cause you DON'T DESERVE ONE.

hate to say, but he's right

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