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I cheated on my BF...Help Please...
Replies: 43Last Post July 28 1:59pm by TigressaLynnMae
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Evolutionism


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Tell him what happened and don't make any excuses like, "We were drunk," get tested for STDs, and live with all the consequences of your actions.

Next time, don't put yourself in a position where you would cheat, and hopefully you won't make the same mistake twice. The first time is a mistake, a second time can only happen if you let it.

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MeJulia

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Honey Oh god this is bad....
You are NOT a bad a person!
I think you might love this other guy though to be honest.......
I would love to get more info andtalk you through this. Pm me if you want but if you want to remain anon I'll just talk to you on here.
but I AM SO SORRRRRRRRRYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!

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It was my first time ever drinking we were playing a drinking game...everytime I lose a race in this car racing game I had to take a drink and the same for him...we never even kissed before this because I respected my relationshp with my BF...I would have never done anything like this if I was sober...but I don't drink and I had like 5 shots of tequilla...he had like 4...and I don't know if i can tell my BF..I'm just too scared he would be really hurt and we would be over for good...I'm sure of it...

10:45 pm on July 23, 2008
Coolslayr


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unless you're absolutely sure that no one will tell him, then don't tell him.

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CaliKevin


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Tell him, you owe him that much after fucking around. Stop trying to rationalize and make excuses.

YOU FUCKED UP, NOW DEAL WITH IT.

Post edited at 10:47 pm on July 23, 2008 by CaliKevin

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Quote: from Torpid Kitten at 1:39 am on July 24, 2008

Run away, and never return.

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Quote: from Anonymous at 10:45 pm on July 23, 2008

It was my first time ever drinking we were playing a drinking game...everytime I lose a race in this car racing game I had to take a drink and the same for him...we never even kissed before this because I respected my relationshp with my BF...I would have never done anything like this if I was sober...but I don't drink and I had like 5 shots of tequilla...he had like 4...and I don't know if i can tell my BF..I'm just too scared he would be really hurt and we would be over for good...I'm sure of it...

well you fucked up, no one has sympathy for you.
just tell him, so he can dump your ass

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chaosdisown


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Quote: from Anonymous at 10:45 pm on July 23, 2008

It was my first time ever drinking we were playing a drinking game...everytime I lose a race in this car racing game I had to take a drink and the same for him...we never even kissed before this because I respected my relationshp with my BF...I would have never done anything like this if I was sober...but I don't drink and I had like 5 shots of tequilla...he had like 4...and I don't know if i can tell my BF..I'm just too scared he would be really hurt and we would be over for good...I'm sure of it...
drunk or not you shouldnt have cheated, maybe you shouldnt have drunk so many, but still if you are going to cheat on a boyfriend they why do you deserve to have one?

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MeJulia

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Do not not tell him hun!
U need to tell him, you did a bad thing, and in a way you need to be punished for it. This is your punishment, telling him.
I feel so terribly bad for you.
Again Im sorry.

Post edited at 10:51 pm on July 23, 2008 by MeJulia

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Dark Dragon


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Quote: from iinsurgent at 10:39 pm on July 23, 2008

It's not fair to your boyfriend. Tell him and deal.

agreed he has the right to know about it.  you should tell him and deal with what will come.  nothing easy but courage is good.  

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Quote: from kmksrhdgaf420 at 10:47 pm on July 23, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 10:45 pm on July 23, 2008

It was my first time ever drinking we were playing a drinking game...everytime I lose a race in this car racing game I had to take a drink and the same for him...we never even kissed before this because I respected my relationshp with my BF...I would have never done anything like this if I was sober...but I don't drink and I had like 5 shots of tequilla...he had like 4...and I don't know if i can tell my BF..I'm just too scared he would be really hurt and we would be over for good...I'm sure of it...

well you fucked up, no one has sympathy for you.
just tell him, so he can dump your ass


^this

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I guess I might as well tell him I mean my life is over anyway...I just had sex with a guy i considered my Bestfriend and now I have to hurt a guy that I loved for so long...I know I don't derserve a Boyfriend most of u are right...but I'm human and we make mistakes...I know this one was a huge mistake but I never thought i would ever get the courage to do something so crazy...I mean the craziest thing I've ever done in my lifetime is probably forget to bring a library book back on time...now I'm in the middle of this crazy nightmare that feel slike a dream...I had sex with only my BF before this and we were always careful about protection...I can't believe I een did this...But I am gonna tell him and I guess I'll have to see what comes next...I know I didn't mean too but sometimes thats not enough...he will never be able to trust me again and I derserve any horrible things life throws at me...

10:55 pm on July 23, 2008
PINKISLOVE


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there are two types of cheating. one is a physcial connection while the other is the cheating from the heart.
As Long as you love your boyfriend very much... you shouldn't tell him... if you plan on doing it again than you should kinda bring it up. anyways it sounds like you love your boyfriend don't cry over it... it was a mistake, you're humans and humans make mistakes. just learn from it.

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MeJulia

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We make mistakes, you made a big one, these bitches on here think they are perfect.
I want to talak to you further but honestly I really think you love this Best Friend guy...

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Quote: from Anonymous at 10:55 pm on July 23, 2008

I guess I might as well tell him I mean my life is over anyway...I just had sex with a guy i considered my Bestfriend and now I have to hurt a guy that I loved for so long...I know I don't derserve a Boyfriend most of u are right...but I'm human and we make mistakes...I know this one was a huge mistake but I never thought i would ever get the courage to do something so crazy...I mean the craziest thing I've ever done in my lifetime is probably forget to bring a library book back on time...now I'm in the middle of this crazy nightmare that feel slike a dream...I had sex with only my BF before this and we were always careful about protection...I can't believe I een did this...But I am gonna tell him and I guess I'll have to see what comes next...I know I didn't mean too but sometimes thats not enough...he will never be able to trust me again and I derserve any horrible things life throws at me...
its you own fault, see this is how we get the need for the maury show... what if you got pregnant... what if you got an std from him... you bf deserves better than you if you are just going to sleep with who ever comes by...

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