I'm very sorry to hear that your uncle has died. This must be an awful time for you and your family right now. I hope you will be alright with the support from your family and your friends.

Death is apart of life. As much as we would love to be help to stop a relative from dying, we can't. I think that you should spend as much time with your grandfather as you can in the up coming months. I know it will be hard too see him sick but I think that you should be there as much as you can. Spending time with him now, before it is too late, will put your mind at ease. You often hear about people not being there to say goodbye before a relative dies because it was so unexpected, but you have a chance to be with your grandfather now. Try and start today or tomorrow and spend time with him and your family all together. Show him how much you care and love him.

I hope you will be alright.